Problems with neighbors are more frequent than we think (and wish). A recent survey, released by SWNS Media Group, indicates that a third of respondents (36%) have had problems with their neighbors.
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According to research from Homes.com, the most common reason for an argument is about parking, followed closely by noise from animals, general noise, and disputes over clutter.
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In New York, the situation has worsened in the pandemic, Well, as Berenice Gartner demonstrates in a recent report, outdoor businesses (which skyrocketed in the pandemic) have not only brought more bustle to neighborhoods, they have also taken away parking.
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A strained relationship with neighbors can lead to similar psychological consequences as victims of sexual or physical harassment and abuse. Among the many symptoms are: constant fear and anxiety, despair, depression and even suicidal thoughts. And, in extreme cases, it has also cost lives.
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How to deal with noisy, dirty neighbors… or even neighbors ‘from hell’?
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Specialists give these tips:
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1. Make sure that the situation that bothers you is really a serious problem.
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2. If it is, keep a record of the behavior in question.
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3. Do some research on the rules of your neighborhood, lest you complain about something that has no solution.
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4. When you decide to communicate with the neighbor who is generating that difficulty, do it when you are calm.
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5. By all means, avoid a confrontation. Remember: you never know who is behind the other door… or what mental condition he is in.
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6. Seek the help of a third party.
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Look for a mediator to dialogue with neighbors from hell
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In New York City there are several resources. Among them is a mediation department for disputes between neighbors. It is a new initiative that provides “free mediation and conflict resolution services to address a range of neighborhood disputes that affect New Yorkers every day.”
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This includes conflicts between neighbors and business with neighbors, among other disputes.
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