In a relationship, you must have met an annoying person who, in every presence, makes the atmosphere complicated. He always brings his problems, his tired feelings, his negative thoughts, which indirectly spread to the people around him.
The question is, what if it turns out you are that person? Indeed, sometimes we do this unconsciously, but the emotions we carry can be transmitted to those closest to us. Therefore, don’t get caught up in the bad habits below.
1. Easily angry over small things
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Are you one of a kind grumpy who get angry easily over small things? For example, when there is a reckless motorbike sound or there are other unpleasant incidents that are actually not too disturbing, but really irritate you. You immediately complain and get angry at yourself.
It’s not that you shouldn’t be angry, it’s normal for you to feel annoyed when someone disturbs you. However, it’s easy to get angry over small things that irritate other people too. As a result, a boundary is created that makes other people reluctant to get close to you.
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2. Always focus on your own mind
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In a gathering when everyone is chatting, you just stay silent late in your daydreams. Don’t know the problem, dateline work or other personal matters. This makes you feel distant and hard to approach.
People tend to get hooked on something positive and happy. If you only focus on yourself and your problems, then it’s no wonder you are one of the people who are shunned in the association. Instead of hate, your demeanor makes other people feel uncomfortable.
3. Always feel nervous and uneasy
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It’s normal to be nervous the first time you go out with your crush, but if you don’t get over it right away, this nervousness and unrest can affect how other people judge you. You can’t be completely yourself.
Instead, there is always a demand to look good in front of people. This makes them feel tense too. So you can’t know each other as they are.
4. Withdraw from the gathering
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Have you ever withdrawn from a group? When many people are engrossed in chatting with each other, you are alone in a corner. Either late in your thoughts, or because you feel insecure.
Although simple, this habit is very influential in how you carry yourself. This makes you seem distant, unapproachable, and unattractive. He so lost the opportunity to introduce himself as it is.
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2023-08-05 16:09:33
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