They are convinced that they must help us, even when nothing has been asked of them. They act in our place until they take control over us… How can we not fall under the influence of these saviors who are rampant? Look !
They are convinced that they must help us, even when nothing has been asked of them. They act in our place until they take control over us …
How not to fall under the influence of these saviors who are rampant?
I’m talking about those people, who have Savior Syndrome. In fact, they build a rewarding image for themselves by making themselves indispensable to better make us dependent on them!
So 1st thing to do: well you will spot in your entourage already, people who too often take themselves for saviors!
How to spot them?
By the harmless and above all repetitive sentences that they can say, such as:
“I’ll take care of everything, let me do it”
“You can count on me, I’m always there for you”
“Tell me about your misfortunes, you can tell me everything …”
When you have spotted this type of person in your surroundings, well be very very vigilant, because these saviors need victims to save !!! And they have every interest in you depending on them.
Why ?
Because this dependence, it comes to nourish and flatter their ego. Without you realizing it, these people can take control of your life. At the beginning we will say to ourselves: “he or she is nice, always ready to help me …”
But under this benevolence hides in reality a tactic to keep you in the grip! Little by little you will no longer do anything without asking the advice of your savior, you will ask him to remedy all your difficulties …
Little by little you will finally, without realizing it, put your life in his hands. You will lose your responsibility, become infantilized, and lose all discernment, and above all, you will lose your FREEDOM to think and act !!!
So don’t panic.
As soon as you are aware of what is going on, my advice: GET OUT OF THIS TOXIC RELATIONSHIP ASAP.
Put some distance
Kindly refuse any help, any takeover
So, if I insist on “nicely”, it is because sometimes the savior when he is rejected, well he can quickly turn into a persecutor, because he no longer obtains from you this recognition that he esteems. merit !!!
The posture of the savior in this case, comes within the framework, in the register of the manipulation!
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