Tommaso Zorzi has published two Instagram Stories in which he explained his opinion on who, victim of bullying or cyberbullying, reports the incident on the social or respond to your ‘executioner’.
The speech seemed to mean that the winner of the Big Brother VIP 5 do not share the latest statements of her ex boyfriend Thomas Stanzaniwith whom he recently ended a relationship that lasted more than a year. Was this really his intention? Here are the words of Zorzianticipated by three great premises: “A) I don’t want to make a controversy; B) I’m not referring to anyone in particular; C) Everyone is free to do what he wants“.
Having said that, I see that there is a trend lately on social to victimize myself a lot, in the sense that I am the first to condemn bullying and cyberbullying, I have suffered both, I find them reprehensible, but I also find that many times the amplifier we give to bullies or cyberbullies is really us. In the sense that if you write me a mean word, ten people read it, if I talk about you writing me a mean word, a hundred thousand read it.
According to the conductor:
Somehow we become amplifiers of people whose message we are condemning. By doing so, we’re also making sure that more people than would read it will then read the same message, basically, in my opinion, solving nothing.
These words are the result of his personal experience:
I have been written to me in the past months, guys I swear, the worst wickedness. But with a violence, with a hatred, with a venom, with such a fury that it is often difficult to say “oh well, I’m not being influenced“. It is inevitable that they will hurt you, but I have never replied and I will never reply. I will never give my amp, my stage, to anyone who wants to talk bad about me. I’ve read some things in the last few months… I was afraid that the virtual would affect me in the real. I was reading such bad things that I was like ‘the person behind it hates me so much that maybe they want to do something to me in real life too’.
“But then, I don’t give this satisfaction, that is, I let it go, I keep it to myself and go straight like a train“, he concluded Zorzi.
