Gender writer Cynthia. (Picture / Reposted from Xincia Facebook)
Xin Xiya, a gender writer who has been married to her American husband Shane for more than 18 years, often helps netizens solve male and female problems. Recently, a netizen sent a private message to her for help, expressing that she is quite troubled by her boyfriend’s sexual addiction. Xin Xiya also gave advice, and emphasized that if you try all methods If it still doesn’t work, then release the life bravely.
Cynthia inFacebook PO articleSaid that she received a private message from a netizen saying that her boyfriend is obsessed with the long legs of the Korean girl group, and would ask her to wear black stockings when they are in an intimate relationship. I don’t know how to face it. Xin Xiya said frankly that everyone has their own sexual preferences more or less, and sexual preferences are not terrible. They are purely a switch that triggers a person’s sexual desire. If you are single, you are free to do whatever you want, but if you are married or In communication, you must take into account the feelings of the other half.
Xin Xiya suggested that it is very important to communicate with the other party. You can tell the other party that he will respect his proclivities, but when you engage in intimacy, you can choose how much you cooperate or not. It’s done on special occasions, but it can also be done occasionally, or even in exchange.”
Xin Xiya pointed out that the problem with the boyfriend of this netizen is not his sexual fetish, but his impoliteness. Having a sexual fetish does not mean that he can disrespect others. If you have a companion next to you, doing it grandiosely, you will be blind to the extreme, this kind of person, why are you being polite to him?” If you have tried all the above methods, the other party is still the same, “Then I can only say: Be brave and let go! One must be better.”
