It probably started 3 years ago, when my wife suddenly became fat for some reason. One time, the couple was preparing to go to a relative’s wedding. She struggled in front of the wardrobe for hours, every dress she wore was too tight.
I looked at my wife and said a very innocent joke: “I admit that I’ve gotten a lot fatter these days, I look just like the girl selling sausages in the alley.”
Actually, the girl selling spring rolls in the alley is very fat, my wife is far from equal, I’m just exaggerating a bit. After hearing this, my wife’s face fell and she didn’t go to the wedding anymore.
From that day on, she made an exercise and diet schedule and followed it strictly. It’s worth mentioning that my wife always abstains from “that thing”. She said she was obsessed with “the sausage seller” and felt no longer confident around her husband. My wife told me to wait patiently for her to regain her old figure and confidence.
My wife is not interested in “intimacy” and advises me to find joy outside (Illustration: Adobe Stock).
Thanks to working hard and eating properly, my wife quickly lost weight. But since then, I see that she is more addicted to exercise than her husband. She signed up for yoga in the evening and jogging every morning. On weekends, she also participates in a folk dance club with women in the neighborhood.
It wouldn’t be worth mentioning if my wife wasn’t so indifferent about sex
Every time I want to be “intimate”, she will be annoyed and say: “Do you not think of anything else besides that?”. That statement really made me feel self-conscious and hurt the man inside me.
My wife acted as if this happened every day, when in reality it was rare for husband and wife to be intimate. If so, it’s mainly because I’m too demanding so my wife tries to “indulge”.
My wife’s coldness and indifference made me restless and uncomfortable. To be honest, I’m not yet 50 years old, my manhood is still very strong. My wife is of course not old, still young and very beautiful.
A few days ago, my wife told me: “It seems like I’m in pre-menopause and no longer want to do anything. If you feel frustrated, just find a way to solve it outside, as long as it’s discreet and safe.” is to be”.
My wife’s words made me mad. My wife sees me as an “omnivorous” person. Is it okay to just eat? Is there any wife who so calmly persuades her husband? Is it possible that at just 42 years old, my wife is so “bored” with her husband?
Remember the old days, when the children were young, the economy was difficult, life had many worries but the sex was always wonderful.
Now, everything is more comfortable, and my sex life has gone down so miserably, I find it difficult to understand.
I asked a few older colleagues. They said, their wife is under 60 but “sex” is still fine. My wife is only 42 years old, I am not yet 50 years old, can we live together as friends for the rest of our lives?
