Feminine behavior that slowly but surely destroys a man’s interest

We often think that longer relationships will simply “last” us. But then one day we wake up and find that all the romance is gone and that the counterpart no longer shows any interest. And we often wonder why that is.

“Since almost everyone wants to know the answer to the question of why relationships break up, I conducted a private survey of several thousand men and women and asked what they thought were the most common causes. Many of them are not surprising,” says relationship coach and writer Lori Peters on her blog.

There are women who often feel that the world owes them something. Complaints about everything possible are thus an almost daily affair. They look grumpy and are unpleasant even to their loved ones, they rarely smile. Such behavior not only reflects on the partner either so that he immediately leaves the relationship, or simply emotionally “disconnects” and lives his own way.

Gaining a few kilos is not a problem, especially when we feel secure in the relationship. At the end of the day, this doesn’t even matter, but what does matter is the fact that more than one woman in a long-term relationship gives up on any care for her appearance – she walks around the house in sweatpants or a t-shirt, disheveled, etc.

Even if there is nothing wrong with the overall relaxed atmosphere, it is still good to try to have a better appearance at home. “Even if you should just dress up for a dinner at home with your partner to celebrate something he’s done well. And if you make it clear that it’s just for him, he’ll definitely appreciate it,” says the coach.

We are supposed to live a full life, so we try to include and maintain contacts with everything that is necessary for us – family, work and more. If we are satisfied in a relationship, it is easier to get the impression that we are sure of it, so there is no need to pay so much attention to it and the time “busyness” can be moved somewhere else.

“You might not see it as a problem at first, but be careful about sleeping in a different room, even if it’s more comfortable for one of you. Likewise, do not prioritize all family or private activities over time spent with your partner. Committing to a relationship requires effort that pays off. You will let the other person know that, despite all life’s vicissitudes, he is a priority for you. Otherwise, you can easily become roommates instead of partners,” explains Petersová.

I’m tired. Not in the mood. I do not feel well. These are just some of the phrases that women (not always but only them) often use, sometimes on purpose, when they are not in the mood for sex.

It is not always easy to find time for love games. No one says you have to have sex three times a week, but don’t forget about it, it’s important for many reasons.

As demonstrated by one of the earlier ones studiesbeing sexually active and enjoying sex is associated, for example, with better mental health in people.

Try to relax, a relationship should also be a little fun. It doesn’t pay to be a cracker, even more so in a relationship.

“It’s no surprise, is it funny people get positive attention, which is proven by many studies. The ability to create and appreciate humor greatly affects who will want to be friends with you or go on a date. Our lives are busy and chaotic enough. If you and your partner can maintain a common sense of humor even under these circumstances, it will give you strength in life and in your relationship,” says psychologist Peter McGraw.

“Where’s the fun, flirty girl I used to know?” asks the man. “Buried under a pile of laundry, work, and exhausted from running between twenty different tasks,” the woman replies.

Does a similar conversational pun remind you of something? Then you are definitely not the only one. But beware, when it exceeds the limit, dangerous boredom will enter the relationship.

Fortunately, it’s never too late to do something about it. Try the flirting or subtle seduction technique again when the kids aren’t around. Try some fun activity together and get out of the ordinary gray of life. Humor and fun belong in a relationship just like romance or sex.