Reporter Li Xiangwen/Comprehensive Report
Mainland artist Fei Qinyuan is a member of the girl group SNH48. In 2020, he participated in the audition “Youth With You 2”. Although he did not enter the debut group in the end, he still gained high popularity. Recently, she was chatting with fans on a social platform and revealed that she had been bullied before. Not only was she ignored by the entire group, but she was also “forced into the laundry room” by one of them. She still feels like crying when she thinks about it.
▲Fei Qinyuan revealed that she was bullied in “Youth With You”. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo/SNH48-Fei Qinyuan–)
Fei Qinyuan recently chatted with fans on a private platform and revealed that when she was skating on Xiaohongshu at night, she suddenly ran into someone who had bullied her before. She remembered the unpleasant past and couldn’t help but complain to the fans: ” Sisters, there are really 80-year-old sisters in the world. It’s really annoying. I didn’t expect that I would be 80-year-old at such an old age.” She did not specify who she was, only revealing that fans may know her, and she is not in the same company as herself. I don’t know what her current status is.”
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Although Fei Qinyuan did not say when he met the bully, he mentioned in his words that he was in a team with someone else at the time, and it was speculated that he was participating in “Youth with You”. She revealed that she got into the car one day and found that no team member was willing to sit with her, so she had to go to the front seat alone. “No one spoke, and no one in the car talked to me.” The days passed, and every day They were all ignored by the team members. In the end, I couldn’t bear it anymore and took the initiative to chat with everyone.
▲Fei Qinyuan was forced to go to the laundry room after being exposed. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo/SNH48-Fei Qinyuan–)
Fei Qinyuan said: “I initially said, ‘How about we all talk together and clear up any misunderstandings.’ She (the bully) refused to let me go, so she said that it would be fine if it was just the two of us, and then she asked me Make an appointment to the laundry room.” At that time, other friends wanted to accompany her, but they also asked her to come alone. “There was no monitoring and (she) was much taller than me. I only dared to squat on the ground while the other friend held her chest and asked me, ‘So you “What do you want?” and walked towards me slowly. I was really afraid that she would hit me, but luckily she didn’t hit me. It was just her words that scared me.”
What made Fei Qinyuan dumbfounded was that she later learned that the reason for the other party’s displeasure was simply because Fei Qinyuan didn’t say hello when they took the elevator together one day. Fei Qinyuan explained helplessly: “Actually, I say hello every time I see everyone, but there are too many people in the elevator, so maybe sometimes I don’t.” Although this was the reason given by the other party, she didn’t know the truth. But the damage was still done, and she still wanted to cry when she thought about the past of being ostracized and bullied.
▲Fei Qinyuan revealed that the bully later came to comfort her. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo/SNH48-Fei Qinyuan–)
Fei Qinyuan also revealed that one year later, when she was participating in the SNH48 general election, she cried, and the bully actually came to comfort her as if nothing had happened, sending a message saying, “I saw you crying, and I cried too. Take good care of yourself.” She was quite shocked when she saw it: “I really… I don’t know how to reply. It’s speechless. Have you forgotten?” But she didn’t expose it. She still thanked the other person politely, but she still thinks about it in her heart.
The news spread on Weibo, and many people began to guess who Fei Qinyuan was talking about, and finally pointed to the team members who collaborated with her on “You Were a Boy”. The members at that time included Hu Xinyin, Cheng Manxin, Fu Yaning, Su Qinrou, Ai Yiyi, and Liu Haihan. . However, before netizens could guess for long, Hu Xinyin took the initiative to post, admitting that she was the person Fei Qinyuan mentioned, but was surprised that the two had completely different perceptions, “I always thought we were good friends, and I was very happy, but today I didn’t expect that we had such a deep misunderstanding.”
▲Hu Xinyin took the initiative to admit that she was the person Fei Qinyuan said. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo/Little Butterfly Hu Xinyin)
Hu Xinyin explained that she was selected by Fei Qinyuan as a member of “You Were a Boy” at that time. After getting along with him, she felt that he was a very nice person and that she could talk to her very well. They had many similar hobbies and ideas. “I feel like I have known each other a lot.” This cute girl has also gained a good friend.” But later she found that the other party seemed to be ignoring her, and her active greetings were not responded to. “She didn’t talk to me very much during training or in the car. There must be some misunderstanding. This is My first reaction.”
Because she wanted to clear up the misunderstanding, Hu Xinyin offered to talk at that time, but she was afraid that talking about this topic in the dormitory would be considered a fuss by others. She happened to see the laundry room and suggested going there to talk, “I asked in the laundry room What’s wrong with her recently? Why doesn’t she pay much attention to me recently? She doesn’t talk much. From the beginning to the end, I had the mentality that I like her very much and want to resolve the misunderstanding. But what surprised me today is why she said I was 80. “
▲Hu Xinyin PO released a conversation record about Fei Qinyuan. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo/Little Butterfly Hu Xinyin)
Hu Xinyin showed the conversation record and found that after the SNH48 general election, she indeed sent a message to comfort Fei Qinyuan. At that time, the other party replied “Thank you for your concern” and also took the initiative to ask her to help shoot a video. She revealed that she had been ostracized from kindergarten to junior high school. She knew how it felt to be bullied and would not do the same thing to others. “I’m really sad. I just don’t want to be misunderstood by others. I don’t want to do what I did.” No matter how hard I try, people still scold me in the end, and I can’t even say a word to explain myself.”
The two people had completely different statements, which sparked heated discussions among netizens. Some thought Fei Qinyuan was making a fuss out of a molehill, while others suspected Hu Xinyin was not telling the truth. However, there are also a group of netizens who said, “Either it is a misunderstanding, or there is a problem between both of them” and “I think there is still a misunderstanding between them that has not been resolved.” They think that maybe both sides are right, but their positions are different. Interpretations differ.
▲Fei Qinyuan revealed to fans on the social platform how she was bullied. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo/SNH48-Fei Qinyuan–)
▲Hu Xinyin responded. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo/Little Butterfly Hu Xinyin)
