Reporter Jeon Jeon Joo of Money Today | 2023.03.28 07:08
Dr. Oh Eun-young, a specialist in mental health medicine, struck a blow at a wife who assaulted her husband in front of their children.
On MBC’s ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’, which aired on the 27th, a couple who had a conflict over the location of their newlyweds appeared.
The couple said they were living in Pocheon, Gyeonggi Province, where their in-laws are located after marriage. Her husband is in the position that he can’t help it because both his work and home are in Pocheon, but his wife expresses loneliness, saying, “I used to run a hair salon in Gwangmyeong, but gave up everything and came down to Pocheon. There is no ointment in Pocheon.” did.
The wife also said, “I really hated going to Pocheon. I said I didn’t want to go to Pocheon even before we got married. But my mother said from the first day we met that I had to come to Pocheon to live with my husband.” It felt like I was dragged in without a choice.”
The two said that there were times when they got into a fight. In particular, the husband said that he felt like he was being gaslighted by his wife and said, “My first sister was near the house and once called for help saying she was carrying something heavy. But (my wife) said, ‘If I call you, of course you have to go’. That caused a quarrel. They cursed at me and threw things at me.”
He continued, “In the meantime, my wife went to my mother and father’s house. There, they said that they cursed at me, saying, ‘You got married fraudulently.'”
The wife said, “I went to pick up the child I left with my in-laws, but my mother asked me to sit down and talk about it, saying, ‘Why do you fight every day?’ I think it was like this,” she explained.
Regarding the assault on her husband, she said, “When I tell my husband, ‘I’m having a hard time,’ he doesn’t listen. So later, I started screaming and threw things after that. seems to be,” he said.
In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young pointed out, “For whatever reason, you should never express your emotions with loud voices and actions in front of your child in the family. This is domestic violence.”
He said, “We should not do more harm than good to our children. Parents’ unintentional and inadvertent words or actions hurt children throughout their lives. Even if you treat them well 100 times, doing it once destroys the child’s sense of security. “he emphasized.
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