What do you look like when you are in love? Are you sacrificing for love or do you like to pursue novelty? Just answer one question to find out whether you and his love personality match!
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Communication between couples is crucial. Two people who love each other need to establish healthy, respectful communication.
Through communication, couples can express their true feelings, understand each other’s needs and expectations, and build a deeper connection.
The popular Japanese women’s magazine CREA recently shared a psychological test. You only need to answer a simple and interesting question to find out which “he” suits you best. Let’s see if you are right!
You are walking with your lover, and suddenly bird droppings fall from the sky, where do you think the bird droppings landed?
A: Fall on yourself
B: fall on the other half
C: fall in front of you
D: behind you
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A: Fall on yourself
If you think bird droppings are falling on you, it means that you are the type who is willing to sacrifice for your lover.
You have an idea of sacrificing dedication as an expression of love, and you unconsciously expect something from your lover, hoping to get “return”. Therefore, if your partner doesn’t often say “I love you” to you in love language, you will feel dissatisfied.
Be careful not to care too much about one-sided expressions of love, and don’t force your lover to return gifts or say certain words. Let this kind of thing develop naturally, and your relationship will run more smoothly.
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B: fall on the other half
If you think bird droppings have fallen on your lover, it means that you are the type who wants to be protected and cared for by your lover.
You will make some capricious demands, and hope that lovers will listen tolerantly. So if your partner doesn’t always put you first, you’ll be dissatisfied, and if your partner rejects your requests, you’ll be disappointed.
But it’s okay to compromise and make capricious demands after listening to your lover’s ideas. Connect with mutual trust and love, and be considerate of each other.
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C: fall in front of you
If you think bird droppings are ahead of the two of you, then you’re the thrill-seeking, surprise-seeking type who wants to stay excited all the time. When dating feels boring, wearing stale clothes, and a vibe that doesn’t feel fresh, you’re going to be dissatisfied.
Therefore, when you date for a long time, the relationship between you may cool down quickly. Try finding a hobby you both are passionate about, or play some games or sports together to beat the boredom.
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D: behind you
If you think bird droppings are getting behind the two of you, it’s a sign that you’re the type looking to foster a long-term relationship or even get married. You feel dissatisfied when a romantic partner seems vague about the future or hesitant to marry.
However, there is still the possibility that the other half may consider getting married but dare not express their views. So take your time, keep hope and take the time to support your loved one, and things will definitely work out for the better.
source:CREA
