The reason for the death of two young people in Prague at the end of the first week of November may have been partnerships. “The most common option is a very unfortunate solution to partner disorders, which means that they may have had some protracted problem and she wanted to break up with him, for example, and he responded by hurting her during a fight or in some affection. so that he wouldn’t lose her, he reacted so unhappily, then he realized it and took his own life. According to the description, it doesn’t look like it was thought out, “psychologist Tomáš Morávek told TN.cz.
However, it is not yet entirely clear whether there was really a romantic relationship between the couple, or it could only be unrequited feelings between two people. “Out of sheer desperation that he couldn’t somehow conquer the object, he could hurt her, then he didn’t know what to do with it and took his own life,” says Morávek.
The pair was also divided by a larger age difference. However, according to Morávek, the different ages of the pair did not necessarily mean a friction surface in their relationship. “Nowadays, the age differences are blurring a bit, although ten years is still relatively much, it’s still half a generation. However, I don’t think it should be a major factor that speaks to it, because today we often see couples who are seven to ten years apart and live in harmony, “the psychologist explained.
Nina was a member of the international organization YMCA, a Christian youth association. “People who are members of Christian organizations are usually very non-conflicting and in those relationships profess a peaceful solution to any conflicts,” Morávek described.
According to the experience of marriage counselor Lucien Kantor, a violent act between partners is often a short-lived reaction that the attacker regrets. In marriage counseling, he often encounters cases where when a person feels that he is not heard, even if other people perceive him as a calm personality, he tends to erupt aggression. “It can’t be put in a box of domestic violence, it’s just affective behavior, an uncontrollable reaction,” he explained.
Aggressive behavior is not just the domain of men, according to Kantor’s experience, both sexes resort to it about the same time. But it has one “but”. “In principle, men are bigger, so the moment there is a physical assault by a man, the consequences are more devastating. When he pushes a woman into a man, he often stands still, when a man pushes into a woman, she can fall somewhere and “Women have a greater tendency to injure their tongues. They can hit so that the man is emotionally injured and he then tends to switch to physical violence more often,” he explained.
According to Kantor, a person’s age is not a significant factor in the level of aggression. Aggression can occur both in young people who have not yet become accustomed to cohabitation, and in older people, in whom emotions accumulate over a long period of time and then everything can end in an affect.
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