A female netizen found out that her boyfriend, who was in his 30s, still slept in the same bed as his mother, and was a little shocked. (Image/reproduced from photoAC)
Generally speaking, children will want to have their own room when they grow up, and few will continue to sleep with their parents. However, a female netizen asked for help because her boyfriend, who was in his 30s, still slept with her mother, which made her feel a little worried. However, after the netizen learned the reason, she said it was “very common.”
The original PO pointed out in the “Dcard” forum that she had been dating her boyfriend for less than a month, and he was in his 30s. During the chat a few days ago, he was shocked to realize that his boyfriend usually sleeps in the same bed as his mother because there are not enough rooms at home, and there are only two. In the room, my father would say that he would sleep in one room, while his boyfriend would share a room with his mother. This sleeping pattern has been the same since childhood.
The original PO said frankly that she had her own room since she was a child, so even though she knew the reason, she was still frightened inside. She was also curious whether this situation was common, or whether she was just too sensitive and thought too much. She believes that there is no privacy when sleeping together. Children should all want to have their own living space, and she is worried that her boyfriend will become attached to his mother.
The original PO explained that she was afraid that the boundaries between her boyfriend and her family of origin and her own privacy would not be clear. She had been taught by her parents since she was a child that “children should sleep by themselves when they reach elementary school” to cultivate independence and the ability to manage their living space.
There are only two rooms in the boyfriend’s house, and since his father snores, he has to share a room with his mother. (Image/reproduced from photoAC)
As soon as the post came out, most netizens said it was reasonable: “The economic conditions are different, so the living environment is also different.” Everyone can have a room, and who wouldn’t want one?” “My family is also in the same situation! There are not enough rooms and my father snores too loudly, so my parents slept in separate rooms when we were young, which led to our children becoming out of society as adults. “I am in my 20s and still have to sleep with my mother.” “I think it’s okay… because the room is really not enough.”
However, there are also many people who cannot accept it. “We are all so old, can we move out?”, “Sleeping in the same room but in different beds is acceptable, but sharing the same bed is really not acceptable”, “Those in their 30s should You can already afford to move out.”
original. (Picture/reproduced from Dcard)
2024-02-05 09:34:10
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