Last Saturday, Chilean television personality Carla Jara graced the latest episode of the popular cooking show, The Divine Food, alongside Chantal Aguilar, Andrés de León, and Dani Ride. The conversation inevitably turned to her highly publicized breakup with radio host Francisco Kaminski, which rocked the entertainment world earlier this year.
Reflecting on her current state, ten months after the split, Jara shared, “I’m astonishing. Many times, people have a hard time believing that one is okay, but as I think time passes very quickly. So, people, a little, forget that what happened to me happened a long time ago, it happened in February.” She added, “It was for the better, I find. Time passed quickly and time heals everything (…) I allow myself to live all my emotions, I allow myself to cry, I allow myself to rage, I allow myself to scream if necessary.”
Jara also discussed her mental health journey, emphasizing the importance of therapy and self-care. “Being able to calm the mind, being able to practice yoga, meditate. Being able to understand why I have not been without therapy. I have been ‘therapy’ all the time, with a psychologist, with a psychiatrist, because I felt it was necessary to understand,” she said.
Carla Jara’s Reflection on Failed Pregnancy Attempts
During the show, Jara opened up about her two unsuccessful attempts to conceive again, sharing a poignant reflection. “Sometimes there are a lot of things where you say ‘why did this happen to me?’ Why me?’ ‘Why couldn’t I have children?’, at one point I questioned it a lot,” she recounted.
Today,Jara has found peace and gratitude in her situation.”Today I understand it and I am grateful because it would be much more tough to be in this situation with three children. I couldn’t be a mother and I implanted,twice,two little eggs. Today I can tell it much more calmly, more freely,” she said.
Reflecting on her journey, Jara expressed, “one said ‘why? Why can’t I? But today I thank life, God, the universe, because today I understand why those buses didn’t have to come into my life.”
Didn’t stop for me at that moment.’ It’s all part of my journey, and I beleive everything happens for a reason,” she noted with a sense of acceptance.
Jara’s candid discussion on the show highlighted her resilience and growth throughout the challenges she faced in her personal life. The conversation not only shed light on her mental health and fertility struggles but also emphasized the importance of self-reflection and healing in the face of adversity. Jara’s ability to articulate her feelings and experiences serves as an inspiration to manny, showcasing that while life’s trials can be daunting, they can also lead to profound personal growth and understanding.