Busy taking care of grandchildren, “sex-hungry” husband goes to have fun with her to cut her hair and wash her hair

In many families, all issues are correct, but the sexual field is not compatible, leading to danger

Anh Hung and Lan have been in love since college. Two people who love each other sincerely, deeply, are supported by their families, so right after graduating from school, stabilizing jobs, they got married. Then Lan became pregnant, both sides were happy, especially the young husband, because he was about to be promoted to “baby father”.

At a young age, she has good health, so the pregnancy, even for the first time, did not find it too difficult and difficult. However, right after going to the ultrasound, the doctor diagnosed the pregnancy was 4 weeks old, Lan issued a “resolution” banning marital relations to preserve the pregnancy and after giving birth, it took 6 months to give birth. active again.

Hung finds it strange, because he is also a person who often reads books and documents online, saying that when his wife is pregnant or giving birth, he only has to abstain at certain times, but not completely.

Hero just told his wife this, was dismissed, saying that men are selfish, do not hold back, sacrifice for their wives and children. Eager to have children, he hummed in agreement, not wanting his wife to think badly of him.

However, when his wife was 4 months pregnant, Mr. Hung felt “sex hungry”.

Although he also learned from the counselors to “treat” to relieve his physiological needs, he still felt uncomfortable.

On the occasion of the drinking session with his friends, he went to karaoke with his friends for the first time, betraying his wife for the first time, having sex with a prostitute. Although he was relieved of his needs, he still felt guilty in his heart, especially fear of being infected.

On the occasion of giving birth to a baby, Lan discovered that her husband was in a relationship. She cried, made a fuss, threatened to have an abortion, Hung comforted his wife that it was not love, just love. address physiological needs, that she has starved him for too long, he accepts, now has someone “support”, nothing to lose…

As a result of this, Lan gave birth abroad, banned her husband from going to her grandmother’s house, refused to let her see her children, and threatened to divorce when the child was one year old.

Ms. Lien is proud to have a husband who is “gentle as a piece of earth”, but recently the family also quarreled, almost taking each other to court just because he was also “messy” with the girl who worked as a hairdresser and shampooer near the house. Come to think of it, Lien feels that she is partly at fault, pushing him into the situation of “starving, clumsy, reckless”.

They got married at a relatively young age, so last year, she became a grandmother when she was 42 years old, and he was 45. Her daughter married a faraway province, so when her daughter gave birth to a child, Ms. Lien came to stay and help. daughter in the first months after birth.

At home, only her husband and son are studying in grade 12. He is a hard-working and responsible man, so he works and takes care of the house and food for the father and son, without any difficulties. Sometimes he goes to the bar to cut his hair and wash his hair.

Here, he met a thirty-year-old “girl” who was an employee in a small town to work as a hired worker. Joking a few sentences, insinuating a few sentences, unexpectedly she accepted an appointment to have coffee with “uncle”. Then what happened happened, he fell in love with this employee.

I don’t know how many times they slept together, but one day when the son got an early leave from school, he came home and caught his father taking his girlfriend home “happy” right in his parents’ room.

Angered, the son made a fuss, said rudely to his father and immediately called his mother to tell him. Answer the wife’s question: “Why would you do such depraved things in the couple’s room? Why did he lose his temper when his wife was busy taking care of the children?”, He humbly apologized and clarified that: “It’s only because you’ve been gone for so long that I don’t care about you, that’s why I’m like this. Where are you old?”

Not only are men “sexually starved” to give birth, but also women, because everyone is human, and also aspire to be loved, caressed and cared for.

Such is the case of Mai, Kien’s wife. Mr. Kien is the boss of an agency, busy, traveling all the time.

Having been at home for five days and four days of drinking, coming back late at night, then rolling back to sleep, snoring like a bellows. He pampered his wife with everything, he gave money to buy anything, needed to travel, he also took her away, or provided money for her to go with a group of friends.

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I don’t know if it’s the boss, traveling a lot, whether he “improved” his physiological needs anywhere, no one knows, but at home, he didn’t touch his wife for a whole month. Ms. Mai is over 40 years old, but still in her youth, so even though she lives in full materiality, she still feels abandoned.

Many nights lying next to her husband, she overflowed with desire to be a wife, she took the initiative to stroke him, hoping that he would realize that he had left her “sex-starved” for a long time. Unfortunately, he removed her hand and said curtly: “Go to sleep, I’m tired, sleep to work tomorrow”.

Aerobic sessions, outings, taking many selfies to post on Facebook, struggling to pick up the kids from school, but the desire in her is still not crushed. Then one day, friends and neighbors rumored that she was dating a young man.

I don’t know if it’s true or not, but when her husband questioned her, she cried while confessing that she was a human being, a woman not yet old, that she was a wife without being cared for and cared for by her husband.

She longs to be the wife of an ordinary worker, not rich, but night and night to live in her husband’s arms, to be sublimated, to satisfy her desires. very woman mine.

But no matter what she said, it was difficult for her husband and outsiders to sympathize with her. Her husband didn’t make a big deal out of it because he pretended to be his boss, didn’t want people to know he was “cuckold”, but berated, tortured her, said offensive words to her.

Except for cases where the husband or wife is sick and not healthy enough to meet each other’s sexual needs, most of the rest of the starvation or failure to satisfy each other and harmonize is due to psychological and cognitive factors. awake.

Some people do not fully appreciate the importance of “that”, thinking that having given birth to a few children is … completing the task, leaving the rest to spend time and effort to earn money and get rich. Some people themselves have a low demand, but they think that their stomach is human, think that their wife or husband is the same, not greedy for anything anymore, so it’s okay.

Some people are not highly vigilant, paying attention to the legitimate needs of their spouses during sensitive times such as pregnancy, childbirth, or being away for too long, leading to a state of “starvation”. Of course, “clumsily eating” due to starvation is also difficult to accept, but it is necessary to be very understanding for each other.

That’s it, in order to keep the family fire, to have a happy and sustainable life in this day and age, everyone must study hard to improve their understanding, even in sensitive areas, to create a better life for each other. Have a healthy, complete and harmonious sexual life.