A middle school in the state of Mississippi in the USA has been severely beaten by the students’ parents, after the school offered female students clothes that were to “help them not to worry about their own body image”.
It said that the girls could get clothes from school that, for example, are designed to hold in the stomach.
The letter the young students aged 10 to 14 brought home this week has garnered strong reactions.
Several of the parents have since posted on social media, where they clearly state what they think about the school’s “advice”.
Ashley Heun’s post went viral on Twitter and Facebook and has sparked outrage over body pressure far beyond Southaven Middle School, where the letter was handed out.
Heun is the mother of 13-year-old Caroline, who came home with the letter from school earlier this week.
– I had no idea that the post would go viral. I posted it on social media with the intention of gathering the other parents to put an end to the message that was conveyed. That every girl (or boy) is “less valuable” because of her body size, Heun told Dagbladet on Thursday.
Heun says that his daughter Caroline said that the letter was “stupid” and that she did not understand the purpose.
– Incredibly pissed
– This was sent home with my daughter who is in 8th grade. I’m incredibly pissed, Ashley Heun wrote on Facebook, posting the picture of the letter.
The letter stated that “girls are more likely than boys to have a negative body image due to unrealistic social and cultural beauty ideals, which can result in higher cases of depression and low self-esteem among schoolgirls”.
To counteract the “trend” the school claimed was going on, they sent the letter home with the children where their parents had the opportunity to request “shapewear, bras and other relevant health products” for their daughters.
Shapewear is, for example, underwear that can be pulled over the navel, with a function that pulls the abdomen in.
– No child should feel pressured
The fact that the school offered children and young teenage girls such clothes to increase their self-confidence did not go down well with the parents.
Heun hopes that this will start conversations between parents and children, teachers, counselors and administration.
– No child should feel pressured to look a certain way, a way that may be impossible to achieve, Heun tells Dagbladet.
At the same time, Heun says that it is not the world’s easiest task to raise children today, as it is so easy for children to get access to things they should not see, as on social media, Heun believes.
– Social media is filled with pictures of people, who have added filters, photo-edited photos. A lot is not real. I want my children to know that they are absolutely perfect just the way they are, says Heun.