By Alejandro Cortés González-Báez
Many years ago I heard a great gentleman whom I admire for many reasons, and who is now in Heaven, say that God had made perfect heads, and had given others hair, and recently speaking with some friends about the different types of baldness, or in his case, how we bald people manage our hair, we managed to make a short classification:
1. Bald focus, the billiard ball.
2. Bald laurel wreath.
3. Bald with shifty.
4. Bald with outgoing tickets.
5. Bald shaving of minor orders.
6. Bald shaving of the major orders.
7. Bald lender.
8. Bald from high interest loans.
9. Barcode bald.
10. Bald man with Hindu turban.
Let me do a double somersault and move on to another topic. We all know the importance of getting vaccinated to prevent disease, because they help us create antibodies or defenses against viruses, bacteria and others, which can do us so much damage. Well, a vaccine of vital importance in the life of every human being is a good mood.
Every day we come across people who are not at all in a good mood, and with this terrible deficiency they face, like everyone else, a world that is sometimes aggressive, or at least irreverent, in such a way that everywhere they are having a bad time.
The embittered tend to distill their bad mood like a pestilential fragrance that turns any environment into a troublesome place. On the other hand, those who have that good, healthy and positive state of mind that allows them to know, recognize and accept their mistakes and shortcomings, spread that sense of optimism that is so much needed, especially when, for a thousand reasons, we find ourselves to live in depersonalized societies.
Good humor is far from falling into the tackyness that easy laughter causes, and tends to use the faults of others as firewood to make fun of them, thus falling into genuine lack of respect and charity. Good humor makes jokes, but the big difference is that the person they are aimed at laughs in good taste. In short, laughing at someone is not like laughing with someone.
In relation to the above we find extremely sensitive people, and as some say: even what they don’t eat is bad for them. In front of them you have to be careful not to say anything that could humiliate or hurt them, and since this is sometimes not easy, it usually happens that the others move away from them so as not to have problems, and so we are left alone, very alone. .
The truth is that it is necessary to love a person very much to bear his bad mood, and since some of them are married, their spouse and children have to make great efforts to try to understand them by speaking to them with sincerity and love to cheer them up, to make their part, and strive to discover the positive that they have around them. Understanding one thing of the utmost importance: Angry is not a person with a strong character, on the contrary; He has such a weak character that he can’t control his emotions.
Serene dark, you will see that with a little patience and effort you will overcome, but you must admit that what hurt you was right… Do not misinterpret what you have heard or read, look, re-read or try to remember the exact words , and try to give them a positive interpretation now, and above all, don’t overdo it. You will see that you lacked objectivity. Come on, we are with you.
