Ana Fernandez does not let March 7 go by without paying tribute to Santi Tranchowho died on this day 8 years ago in a motorcycle accident.
And today, he has done it again: posting an image of the cameraman doing his job and with a text that is somewhat different from the previous ones. In it, the interpreter has explained that Since Santi passed away, there have been many messages he has received asking for his advice. on how to get over the loss of a partner.
Although he assures that he does not want to “give advice”, he can share what he has learned during this time, and he relates it like this:
“They say that time heals wounds… I believe that it helps us to soothe that pain that overwhelms us, that accumulation of feelings must remain in a very special place of our being, a box designed with love, to open it whenever we want and rejoice. in memories and nostalgia… Every minute that passes, every hour, day, week, month, up to 8 years (in my case)
During all this time, while I was designing my precious box, many people have written to me and continue to write to me because the same thing had happened to you (you were suffering the loss of a partner, friend due to motorcycle or car accidents…) and you asked me for “advice”. ” to get ahead…. To this day it never ceases to overwhelm me because I think “do I give advice?” If I just kept breathing.
But time is very wise and it has been teaching me without me realizing it.
It turns out that it is not only about breathing, it is about surrendering to life/universe/god or whatever each one wants to call it, surrendering is not giving up, it is to stop going against something so superior that it is out of our control, It is talking and talking, it is crying, it is going to a therapy in conditions to deal with the issue, it is learning to let go, it is crying again, it is not stopping learning, it is loving the simple things, it is not wasting your time, it is open yourself to love, is to pay tribute to the soul/energy that went to the other plane, is to speak and speak again…
Since today is a special day on my calendar, to all of you who are going through a duel or a loss, here I leave you a little piece of my learning, because that’s what life is all about, right? Of learning.
Dear Junglecam, dear Santi, today we pay tribute to you.”
