Saturday, November 16, 2024 – 4:00 p.m Editing
A lot has changed for Debby Pfaff since her divorce from Nicolas Liébart. She says she has also given it a lot of thought.
“I spent a lot of time thinking about this question yesterday,” said Debby in Het Laatste Nieuws “I notice that I often don’t give myself enough time There is always something that is more important,” she said. There was a responsibility for her children and a sense of provision for others – for the people who call and need help – there. “I tend to neglect myself too much.”
It was during a long phone conversation with her sister Lyndsey that she realized it was time to make a change. “I told her I would like myself,” she says Gradually the idea of putting herself second became a pattern she had had enough of. m at the point where I’m thinking: now it’s up to me.”
With that vision, she wants to turn the page and work on a new chapter in her life. “Books closed. On to the next thing,” he says with determination.
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“Ik heb gisteren lang zitten nadenken over deze vraag”, aldus Debby in Het Laatste Nieuws. “Ik merk dat ik vaak niet genoeg tijd voor mezelf neem. Er is altijd wel iets dat belangrijker lijkt”, stelt ze. De verantwoordelijkheid voor haar kinderen en het gevoel van paraatheid voor anderen — voor de mensen die bellen en hulp nodig hebben — overheerste. “Ik heb de neiging om mezelf te hard weg te cijferen.”
Het was tijdens een lang telefoongesprek met haar zus Lyndsey dat ze zich realiseerde dat het tijd was om iets te veranderen. “Ik heb tegen haar gezegd dat ik mezelf graag moet zien”, vertelt ze. De gedachte om zichzelf op de tweede plaats te zetten, werd stilaan een patroon waar ze genoeg van had. Toch benadrukte ze: “Ik heb daar allemaal geen spijt van, maar ik ben wel op het punt dat ik denk: nu is het aan mij.”
Met dat inzicht wil ze de pagina omslaan en werken aan een nieuw hoofdstuk in haar leven. “Boeken dicht. Op naar het volgende”, klinkt het vastberaden.
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2024-11-17 21:46:00
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How has your perspective on self-care changed since becoming a single parent?
1. Can you tell us about the changes you have gone through since your divorce from Nicolas Liebart?
2. Why do you think you tended to neglect yourself before and how did you realize it was time for a change?
3. What specific steps are you taking to prioritize yourself and start a new chapter in your life?
4. How do you think being a single parent, and having responsibilities towards your children and others affected your decision to put yourself on the back burner?
5. What challenges do you anticipate in this new phase of self-discovery and personal growth?
6. Can you share any advice you have for others who might be going through a similar situation or struggle with prioritizing themselves?
7. What does “putting yourself first” really mean to you and how do you plan to incorporate it into your daily life?
8. In what ways do you think this realization will impact your relationships with your friends, family, and loved ones?
9. Are there any particular hobbies or interests that you would like to pursue now that you have more time for yourself?
10. How important is it for individuals who have experienced similar circumstances to make time for self-care and personal growth?
