How should the patient and family deal with the onset of the illness? Her husband, who is in his 50s and is dedicated to his work and helps with housework and childcare, was diagnosed with cancer six years ago. Despite surgery and treatment, the disease metastasized 4 years later. After that, black shadows and blue bruises ravaged his whole body, and although he tried different medicines, he ended up using medical medicine. Her husband said in a low voice, “I’m in the 5-year survival rate of a few percent,” but she’s almost in bed. What is in the heart of a wife who supports her diligently? (First part / all part 2)
two people remarried
Makiko Kasama (pseudonym, 50s), who lives in the Kanto region, worked as a beauty consultant for a cosmetics manufacturer after graduating from high school, and when she was 19, she married a man of the same age who worked for an industrial company.
She was blessed with two boys and had a peaceful life, but when she was 28 years old, her husband found out that she was having an affair. The other person was a 23-year-old woman from the same company. Ms Kasama divorced her husband and took custody of her sons, aged 10 and 8, but did not receive alimony or child support.
Around the same time, a man 6 years her senior, who had been friends with his wife since they met a friend four years ago, divorced because of his wife’s debt. By coincidence, the two were divorced at the same time and hit it off, so they start dating with the intention of getting married again.
The man was a manager of a foreign precision machinery company. It turned out that the man and his ex-wife had no children, and that his ex-wife had been buying expensive bags and clothes and had borrowed money from several banks. Although she is a full-time housewife, she does not do any housework and goes out until midnight, and the husband is often not at home after he comes home from work. , which is why she decided to divorce him.
Six months later, when Kasama registered her marriage at the age of 34, her remarried husband was willing to accept her sons, aged 11 and 9.
Four months after they registered, the couple held a wedding in Hawaii, and a few weeks later they found out they were pregnant.
During the summer holidays that year, Ms. Kasama’s ex-husband asked her to let her sons come to visit us, so she sent them there.
However, even on the day he was supposed to return home, he never heard from him. Mr. Kasama thought something was wrong and called him.
“The kids say, ‘I don’t want to go back,’ so I won’t go back.”
I was surprised to hear that.
She quickly explained the situation to her husband and asked him to drive 10 hours to her ex-husband’s house, but her sons say they will not return home, asking what the they have an old man installed in them.
“I had no choice but to force myself to accept, “If they say that, there’s nothing I can do about it,” and go home. our ex’s family. If we don’t do that, the children won’t be able to go to school…”
Kasama, who was five months pregnant at the time, cried every day to the point that it was likely to harm her unborn child. However, after about a month, she suddenly became interested in maternal swimming and started going, and her sadness mysteriously disappeared.
And at the age of 36, she gave birth safely. It was a boy.
My husband was perfect in housework and childcare.
When her son was in kindergarten, Ms. Kasama was hospitalized for uterine fibroids, but her husband was able to take her to and from lessons, make lunch, and even interact with mom’s friends, which impressed him Ms Kasama. When he entered primary school, he took an active part in school events and amazed his son so much that it almost hurt to see him. They were a close family that went out together every day.
2024-10-26 01:00:00
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