Yiyi and Stanley divorced. (Picture/FB@ Twins Yiyi Peipei’s Yiyi)
Actress twins Yiyi (Tsai Yiling) recently announced that they are resuming their relationship, peacefully ending their 10-year marriage. In the past, Yiyi talked about the bitterness of marriage on the show, including the couple having to pay their own way after marriage, having to accompany her mother-in-law back to her parents’ home in the second grade of junior high school, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law being uncomfortable living together, etc.
Before her divorce, Yiyi revealed on the show “Is It OK to Be Single?”: “Because my husband and I have no consensus on money, we have always paid our own way.” As for childcare and household expenses, they are jointly borne. Whoever can’t stand it will be the one to bear. Spend money. However, Yiyi admitted that the two of them had no tacit understanding on the education of their children. She found that the child’s English could not keep up, and she hoped to send her to a cram school to improve her skills. However, her husband objected and would rather spend the money to buy a high-end tent. Yiyi sighed: “I seem to be with him. He doesn’t have room to discuss money, so it’s easier to have disputes.”
Advertisement (Please continue reading this article) Yiyi and Stanley often have bad communication about money. (Picture/FB@ Twins Yiyi Peipei’s Yiyi)
Yiyi believes that the key to maintaining a marriage is empathy. For example, she likes to go back to her parents’ home after marriage, and her mother-in-law is quite critical of her. Fortunately, her husband will empathize and protect her, making her feel at ease. In addition, Yiyi said that during the Chinese New Year a few years ago, when she had to accompany her mother-in-law back to her parents’ home, she would feel inexplicably sad and sad because she also wanted to go back to her parents’ home. Seeing that Yiyi was so depressed, her husband did not dare to communicate with her mother directly, but I will privately coordinate the gathering time with my relatives so that I can leave early and Yiyi can go back to her natal family.
Yiyi said that although her husband was very considerate, she still had conflicts with her husband’s family. For example, Yiyi would rather spend 45 yuan on shipping to save time, but her mother-in-law thought that 45 yuan was a lot of money and that queuing for an hour was more worthwhile. What made Yiyi most uncomfortable was that when her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lived together, she turned on the lights one night. Due to the design, the entire row of light bulbs would light up. At this time, her mother-in-law suddenly appeared, and she was reminded that a person does not need so many lights.
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Yiyi said frankly that her mother-in-law might not be used to someone with a different surname from her children living in the house. “She might have to accept me as a person, which might be a bit difficult for her.” In order to solve the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Yiyi spent money to buy a house and moved in with her husband. Go in and reduce the friction with your mother-in-law.
