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- Separate bedrooms for couples
- More and more people are sleeping in different beds
- That’s what experts say
A survey from the USA shows that around 20 percent of couples regularly sleep in separate bedrooms, as “CBC” reports. In Germany, according to a study by “Elitepartner”, it is around 11 percent.
This practice, often called “Sleep Divorce” is more widespread than many people assume. Stars like Cameron Diaz also use this method to optimize their night’s sleep.
According to Dr. Mark Boulous, a neurologist at Sunnybrook Health Sciences Center, is Lack of sleep is the main reason for this decisionreports CBC. Nighttime disorders such as snoring or different sleeping habits can significantly contribute to insomnia.
Good to know:
Health benefits of better sleep
Poor sleep can lead to a number of problems including Health problems, mood swings and reduced cognitive functions.
In the long term, lack of sleep can even increase the risk of cardiovascular and metabolic diseases. In the worst case, diabetes and heart disease can also be triggered. A night of restful sleep has an effect positive for health and mood out of.
Communication and intimacy despite separate beds
Despite the benefits that separate bedrooms can provide, couples should ensure that Communication and intimacy are not too short come.
Allison Villa, a Toronto-based psychotherapist, recommends finding creative ways to maintain closeness, such as through shared rituals or alternate sleeping in the same bed.
There could also be a risk of intimacy suffering. “There’s something special about going to bed at the same time”explains Villa. Couples should overall talk openly about their needsto avoid misunderstandings.
Also exciting:
If you don’t want to sleep in separate beds in the end or can’t due to space constraints, you should consider a few tips that can improve the quality of your sleep:
- Everyone should have their own duvet
- Use earplugs
- If you snore, see a doctor
- In an emergency, have the sofa or something similar ready as an alternative
## Sleep Divorce: A Dream Come True or Relationship Nightmare?
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**Host:** Welcome back to World Today News! Sleep, it’s something we all need, but what happens when your partner’s sleep habits are keeping you up at night?
Today we’re diving into the growing trend of “Sleep Divorce”—couples choosing to sleep in separate bedrooms. Joining us to discuss this unique phenomenon are Dr. Helena Lee, a sleep specialist with decades of experience, and Sarah Miller, a relationship counsellor with a focus on modern couples. Welcome to both of you!
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**Host:** Dr. Lee, let’s start with you. The article mentions that lack of sleep is a primary driver of this trend. Could you elaborate on the health concerns associated with insufficient sleep?
**Dr. Lee:** Absolutely. Chronic sleep deprivation can have serious consequences for both physical and mental health. It weakens our immune system, increases the risk of cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and even impacts cognitive function. When we don’t get quality sleep, our mood, concentration, and decision-making abilities suffer.
**Host:** Sarah, from a relationship standpoint, what are some potential benefits and drawbacks of sleeping separately?
**Sarah Miller:** It’s a complex issue. While sleeping apart can certainly improve sleep quality and reduce stress caused by sleep disturbances, it’s crucial that couples prioritize communication and intimacy. Sleeping in separate rooms might lessen physical closeness and create a sense of distance if not managed carefully.
**Host:** (To both guests) Let’s delve into some practical strategies. Dr. Lee, what are your recommendations for couples who want to try sleeping separately but still prioritize their health and relationship?
**Dr. Lee:** First and foremost, transparency is key. Openly discuss your needs and expectations with each other. Establish a schedule for shared activities like bedtime cuddling or morning coffee together.
**Sarah Miller:** I agree. Create rituals to nurture emotional connection. Regular date nights, shared hobbies, and even simple gestures like a goodnight text can help maintain a sense of closeness despite separate sleeping arrangements.
**Host:** What about those who can’t afford separate bedrooms or simply prefer to share the same space? What tips can you offer for improving sleep quality in a shared bedroom?
**Dr. Lee:** Invest in good quality bedding, experiment with different pillow and mattress types, and consider earplugs or a white noise machine to minimize disturbances. If snoring is an issue, a medical consultation with a sleep specialist is advisable.
**Host:** Sarah, for couples struggling with the emotional aspect of this decision, what advice would you give?
**Sarah Miller:** Don’t shy away from seeking professional guidance. A therapist can provide a safe space to discuss concerns, explore underlying issues, and develop coping mechanisms to navigate this change together.
**Host:** This has been a fascinating discussion. Thank you both for shedding light on this complex topic. It’s clear that while “sleep divorce” may seem unconventional, it can be a viable option for some couples when approached with open communication, mutual understanding, and a focus on maintaining emotional intimacy.
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**Host:** For more insights on relationships and well-being, be sure to visit World Today News regularly. Until next time, sleep well!
