The story goes that after giving birth, she returned the favor to her husband, who came home late every night to enjoy entertainment, and only then did he come to his senses.
On the 3rd, an article was posted on an online community with the title, ‘Entertainment problem, they helped Nunnunii, but now they say they made a mistake.’ Here, ‘nunnunii’ is an abbreviation for ‘an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.’
Mr. A, who said he had been married for three years, said, “I had a baby six months after getting married, and I spent the first year after giving birth taking care of myself and taking care of the child. My husband drank a lot during our relationship, but he didn’t go out often and have fun.” “It wasn’t,” he began.
But after I got pregnant, my husband started going out. Mr. A wrote, “Maybe he thought I was a fish trapped in his fishing farm, but he always went out once every 2-3 days and drank with his friends or close friends until late at night. On Fridays and Saturdays, he said he would go out and have a drink and come back in the early morning.” .
He then confessed, “As I gained weight after marriage, people saying I was ‘pretty’ disappeared, and people made comments that seemed to ignore me, which lowered my self-esteem and led to depression.” Meanwhile, Ms. A was contemplating divorce after her parents advised her to ‘separate as soon as possible’ after her husband came home at 4 a.m. from playing with his friends.
Ms. A, who could no longer bear it, reported this to her in-laws. She asked her in-laws, “My husband is giving me a hard time with entertainment and is single-handedly raising children, so please take care of the child when I leave it to him for the time being and pretend not to notice my husband.” The in-laws readily accepted Mr. A’s request.
Accordingly, Mr. A began ‘an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth’ in earnest.
She confessed that she lost 9 kg by dropping off her child at her in-laws’ house every two days and eating brunch or exercising with friends during the day. “When I started losing weight, my confidence doubled. I dressed up properly and went out and played until dawn, just like my husband, and then came back in.” .
He explained, “I did as much laundry as my own clothes. I even threw away the clothes I ironed every day and told her to take care of it herself. On the days I was with the baby, I met a friend who had a baby, chatted, and had a good time.”
Then one day, Ms. A left the baby at her in-laws’ house and played with her friends. When she went home at 4 a.m. the next day, her husband seemed to have come to his senses and asked Ms. A for forgiveness. The husband asked for forgiveness, saying, “Next weekend, the three of you and the baby should come get some fresh air. I was wrong. I didn’t know how you felt.”
When Mr. A said, “I don’t need you in my life anymore. You can do whatever you want, either divorce or live like someone else,” her husband said, “I will wait until you calm down.”
In relation to this, Mr. A said, “It seems that my parents and in-laws want us to improve our relationship and get along well, but I think we have come too far to forgive and live. Why do I have to do the same to come to my senses? When I say that I am having a hard time or that I am lonely, they say, ‘You should go out too. “You ignored me and said, ‘Please do something,’ and now you’re begging me like I’m worse off than anyone else,” he complained. He added, “Even if I try to forget about it and live my life, I can’t forgive myself for going out alone, drinking and having fun, and then coming back in and just sleeping whenever I feel lonely.”
