“Chereen” talks about the life of a single mother I want to be a good mother. Travel happily and make yourself happy. Heart rate is very single, wants to have a boyfriend Indicates that the most important lesson from past loves is to love yourself. Crying the day I decided to walk away from the relationship. There are only people who care about their children. But no one thought of it.
And even though I’m a single mother, “Chereen Natcharee Horwetkul“You can still enjoy life. Make yourself happy by being a good-natured mother, traveling in a flexible way Chereen told this story in the program How and Where to Tell on the YouTube channel. GoyNattyDream said…
“I am a person who travels happily. After having children, I still travel. I don’t want to have a child and stop living my life 100%, maybe half for him. We still have the other half. Because one day when our children grow up, we will no longer have life in our lives. because in the past we gave it all to him. My friend, nobody wants to have children. Because I fear having children and my own life will disappear completely. It is time sharing. I am a person who likes to dance more than I like to drink. Sometimes she dances so hard that the boy at the next table avoids her.
When you go on a trip, tell your child directly. I said, Mom, I’m going on a trip. We are with him all the time. If there is anything, I will address it directly. I don’t talk like a child. Treat him like a friend.”
My heart is very single.
“Absolutely single. Very single, very single, always open your heart, but there is none, very confused (laughs). and they liked it, it was over. But now I have more of a checklist of my specs because I’ve been through a lot, I’ve grown up and I’ve had kids. As much as you like it, you can date it when you are young. You have to think about your child too because one day they will meet your child. We need to scan more with the people who come into our lives.
There are about 32 things on the checklist, but the main one is to be a clean, calm and reasonable person We are beginning to understand that human relationships can always have problems. Therefore, the person who can communicate with us must be a person who uses reason and is calm. If you are impatient, you cannot speak. Married life is about constant communication. Changing each other all the time I want to have a boyfriend because I like to share it with someone.
Another thing is being able to get along with the people around us. Being with friends and family is very important. In a relationship, one cannot be together and be together.“
Tell about an experience you once had with a man that caused you to fall into a gaslight situation (making the other person confused with reality).
“We feel guilty all the time, everything is wrong, we got out of there. From our response to what he did wrong to us. He says it’s because she thinks too much. Is it because she is not well? We walk away from that relationship by loving ourselves. I know we got into these things because we didn’t love ourselves. So I agreed to let him do it for me. We are people who like to blame ourselves.Anything we did before was wrong. We blame ourselves so we don’t have to fight big. But when I started to understand After thinking about it, we were not wrong. Then slowly check yourself if it’s right After repeating it a few times, you will be ok, that’s enough, it’s over our own feelings are also important. The way we are treated is also our right.“
The most important lesson from past love is to love yourself.
“Love yourself in the past, I realized because I didn’t love myself, I let him do it for me. In every relationship, whether it’s a lover, friend, family, or anyone else, if we don’t love ourselves, we let others have whatever they want. to do If we love ourselves, we will know what we want. How valuable are our feelings? How should we deal with this problem with which we are okay and with which we are most happy? But we mustn’t worry about it either.
Perhaps the incident in which I felt the most unloved was the incident in the news where I allowed him to physically harm me and then I continued to live. There are many factors. Because we have children It may take some thought to break up with someone who is the father of your child. It is very difficult for us to just walk away and take our child out. We endured it there for 2 years, always asking ourselves why we did it.
But now that we are here, I feel that it is good that we have been patient. By the day we walked out, we felt like we had truly suffered to the end. We tried our best. We walked out without questioning whether we had been patient enough. We do not doubt our efforts. It’s our favorite.“
Tell people who are still in this type of relationship and don’t like to be patient so they can answer their own questions.
“People who are still in relationships with different levels of tolerance or if there are factors in life that prevent us from walking out. I want you to examine your own feelings. Our own needs, what do we want? Do we want to be happy? And can we please ourselves? If our happiness still depends on someone, that’s fine Just give it time there. Then give yourself as much time as you can. What day do you answer the questions? I can make myself happy and then walk away It’s sad, it hurts everything. But just walk away and he will be happy.
When you first break up, talk to your friends. that we went out Everyone will ask if you are not worried about your child. This is for people who have children and cannot walk away from the relationship because they are worried about their children. Everyone is worried about my child. Support my child And who cares? Who is thinking of me? (Crying) It is this word. Even though we are mothers we have to take care of our children. But we have to take care of ourselves too. I would like to say that you should think about yourself a lot. We can raise children well when we are happy.“
