Bad sex always has a tragic impact on a relationship. For this 62-year-old man who confided in the column Deidre of Sunthe situation became more complicated after he was diagnosed with an illness for which he now has to take a daily treatment. Because of this treatment, he can no longer reach orgasm.
He has been married to his 58-year-old wife for twenty-five years and claims that their sex life has always been at its best. To his great misfortune, for the past few months, every time they make love, he can’t not to reach orgasm. And this is true even if they take their time and try for a long time.
He can’t reach orgasm anymore and his wife is depressed
The sixty-year-old reassured his wife that the problem had nothing to do with her. He was worried about his wife’s depression and wanted to know how he could change the situation. He can see that his wife is trying to be understanding, but his difficulty reaching orgasm is really starting to take a toll on his relationship.
It’s not just his wife’s morale that is affected by his problem in bed. For his part, he has seen his libido drop. He explains his drop in libido by the fact that he has so much fear of being intimate and disappoint his wife again.
His high blood pressure changed everything
Everything was going well for him before. He and his wife have always had a fulfilling sex life. Six months ago, he was diagnosed high blood pressure. His doctor had warned him that it could have a side effect.”I didn’t expect it to have such a big impact on my sex life” he lamented.
Deidre explains that although blood pressure medications can
make things more difficulthe must remember that good sex is not just about achieving orgasm.
Deidre advises him to appreciate and enjoy the experience as a whole and to find pleasure in intimacy.”You may even find that not focusing on the goal and the pressure will make it easier.“, reassures Deidre.
