Aftercare is the most normal thing in the world in kinky BDSM. This appears to be much less the case with regular or vanilla sex. However, it can seriously boost your sex life if you also provide aftercare for this type of sex. Just call customer care already!
Is it birding for you too, pick up your phone and you’re done? Then you’d better adapt it. In the world of BDSM, it is completely normal to spend extensive time on aftercare and ensuring your partner’s physical and emotional comfort. BDSM can therefore have a serious impact, literally and figuratively.
From getting a snack to cuddling
What should you expect from aftercare? Getting a snack, suggesting something to drink or just cuddling are all options. But you can just as easily give a sincere compliment or watch a movie together. Another option is to discuss what you thought of the sex in a relaxed manner. It just depends on what you feel good about.
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While aftercare is essential for BDSM because the experience can be quite kinky and emotionally difficult, it is also better to apply this to regular sex. Good sex always involves intimacy and vulnerability. Some people may feel a bit down or nervous after sex. With some aftercare you can remove this feeling and provide the necessary security and calmness. It is also the perfect time to connect with your partner.
Even when you are single and out and about, aftercare is important. This way you show the necessary respect. Treating someone gently after sex has never hurt anyone.
Do you want to be completely the man? Then you ask before the act what your sex partner needs after sex. You can guess, but it’s easiest to simply ask.
2024-04-15 07:12:19
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