In a relationship you can sometimes have to deal with a different libido. That’s not surprising, because of course no one is the same and everyone has different ones wants and needs. Yet libido differences can be difficult. But, no more: this is how you and your partner deal with having someone else sex drive.
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Different libidos in your relationship
Although having a relationship is fun and enjoyable, sometimes it also brings with it the necessary ‘problems’. Example: you and your partner have different libidos. For example, one person may often want a lot of sex, while the other is completely fine with little intimacy. A difficult idea for both parties, because how do you best deal with this? Do you have to make compromises? Or do you leave it as it is?
It has happened to everyone: your partner wants sex and you don’t (or vice versa). It can of course happen a few times, but if it continues to occur it can become a problem. We have a number of tips that can ensure that you and your partner are more on the same page when it comes to your libidos.
Make it negotiable
This tip can be a difficult one for many people, but it is just as important. Then discuss how you both initiate sex. Often one person doesn’t even realize when the other wants to have a romantic evening. If you know how to ‘start’ being intimate, you can both prepare yourself a little when that happens. Certainly don’t adapt to someone else, but do learn love language know about your partner.
Being intimate in a different way
If your libido is lower or higher than that of your partner, there are also other ways to ‘connect’ together. Being intimate doesn’t always mean sex. Being intimate can also mean having deep conversations or extensive cuddling (with your clothes on). Even if you watch a movie together. Everything for something romantic. This is how you fulfill each other’s needs needs hopefully a little more.
Schedule moments
Unfortunately, this doesn’t sound very romantic, but scheduling a sex moment can help if you and your partner have different libidos. If you don’t like this, you can also enjoy moments of connecting schedule. Organizing a date night can certainly help you get closer again. After such an intimate moment together, it is quite possible that your libidos will realign. And that’s what we want, right?
2024-01-27 10:00:00
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