You could say that the first date is an exciting moment for everyone who is in the approach stage. So it’s not surprising because being so enthusiastic about dating makes some people feel nervous. It’s certainly okay and normal to be nervous when going on a date, but don’t be so nervous that it will actually trigger mistakes that will make the date have a bad impression.
Because when nervous it usually makes people do things they didn’t plan and don’t realize that it makes other people uncomfortable. Mistakes that can arise if you are too nervous on a date include awkward interactions with your crush, being too aggressive, or showing yourself too much to your crush. More details will be discussed one by one in the three points below.
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1. Awkward interactions that make dating less comfortable
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Excessive nervousness can cause confusion, where you don’t know how to act on a date, causing awkwardness. Nervous about wanting to talk and chat, gesture The body becomes stiff if you are too nervous. If you’re awkward like that, of course partner Your date will also be stiff and awkward.
Just the occurrence of this first mistake actually makes the first date fail. Which is good for you and too partner Your date is both uncomfortable and not enjoy during the date because things were awkward between you. So don’t let this happen and try to act relaxed when dating so that the atmosphere feels comfortable and enjoy live it.
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2. In a hurry to increase closeness which makes your crush uncomfortable
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A mistake that can also happen if you are too nervous on a first date is being too aggressive. It’s understandable that when PDKT is with someone you like, you definitely want to get closer quickly. But what makes it wrong is if you are too hasty in wanting to increase closeness which ends up being too aggressive and making him feel uncomfortable.
Whether it’s sitting too close or making unnecessary physical contact. Even though they may be equally interested, you need to remember that not everyone likes to be touched or close to the opposite sex when dating. Which, if you don’t realize this mistake, could actually make you a crush illfeel and reluctant to go on another date with you.
3. Excessive self-display leads to exaggeration and ill-feeling
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Being too nervous on a first date can have fatal consequences if it makes you show yourself too much. Because you want to impress your crush, you show off and tell him all your strengths. Honestly this makes people fast illfeelbecause it seems like you are bragging and want to be recognized.
So control your nervousness during a date as much as possible oversharing like this. It’s okay to want to impress your crush, but don’t talk too much to the point of showing off the things you have or all your achievements. Just chat slowly, because the important thing on a first date is to build a conversation that is comfortable and enjoyable partner feel at home.
Too excited and being nervous on a first date can lead to mistakes that make the date worse. Like the three examples above that can make your crush feel uncomfortable illfeel when with you.
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2024-01-19 15:26:00
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