Although penis size does not determine how good sex will be, people still believe in the myth ‘the bigger, the better’. Yet it can be quite painful for women if their partner is well endowed.
Having sex with an above-average penis can be challenging. Luckily, great sex isn’t just about penetration. And even if you want to take on that challenge, there are ways to make it a little easier.
Disclaimer: wherever he/he/his is mentioned in this article, it could of course also be about her/that/them/theirs. Sex and love is for everyone and you can also use these positions when you use sex toys. Enjoy!
What do you mean by ‘big’?
From the latest research on penis lengths shows that the average length is 9.16 centimeters when flaccid and 13.12 centimeters when erect. In terms of girth, the average is 9.31 centimeters in a flaccid state and 11.66 centimeters in an erect state. If your partner talks about a “big one,” those measurements should be significantly above average.
Useful sex positions if your partner has a big penis
The prospect of inserting something really big into the vagina can be a little intimidating, but it’s not impossible. The key is to find ways that make it feel comfortable for everyone involved. These tips and positions can help you, you’re welcome!
Tight missionary
With the so-called ‘tight missionary’, the person with V can decide for herself how much of the P comes into her. You do this by keeping your legs together during the typical missionary position.
Spooning
It is intimate, romantic and most importantly: it does not allow very deep penetration. It’s the perfect position for some sexy time and leave your hands free to enjoy other places. All you have to do is lie on your side. Cuddling sex, what more could you want? Try pressing your legs close together as you extend them for the best results
Side by side
It’s like spooning, except you’re lying opposite each other. The position itself limits how deep the penis can go. If it’s still too much, you can keep your legs closed for even shallower penetration. The position has a high level of intimacy and is perfect for people who like to kiss – and who doesn’t?
Vulva on top
Yes, this position is recommended for sex with people with a smaller than average penis. The idea of riding a huge cock may seem crazy, but wait a minute. The reason this position still works is that you can determine the depth yourself – with a little care of course. Simply straddle your partner, who is lying flat on their back. Use your hands and legs to control the ride.
Standing dog
Doggy style can be a rough ride with a big one with an overzealous partner. The standing dog, on the other hand, makes deep penetration a lot more difficult.
To do this, stand against a wall while your partner enters you from behind. It can be a bit awkward and you have to have a good sense of which angle is exactly right, but together you will get there. If necessary, you can wrap your legs around him to get into a position The Wheelbarrow. Practice makes perfect!
There are plenty of other things to try
Penetration is absolutely NOT the holy grail of sex. Oral sex can increase your chances of orgasm and give those sore genitals a much-needed and oh-so-pleasant break. You can achieve a lot in bed with your hands and mouth… The body is full of sensitive places that are worth exploring, including the region down there Naturally. Do you already know all the erogenous zones of women and men?
What to keep in mind if your partner is well endowed
Here are things you’ll want to keep in mind to make sex as enjoyable as possible for both of you:
Lube, lube, lube
Make sure you always have lubricant on hand. This makes sex easier and safer by reducing any friction. This can help prevent skin irritations or even cracks that increase the risk of STDs.
Make sure you always remain in control
At least at the beginning, until you and your partner have found your rhythm and know exactly what works and what doesn’t.
Work on that pelvic floor
Strengthening your pelvic floor makes it easier to adapt to the size of a penis. These Kegel exercises are a good start.
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2023-12-28 07:44:06
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