Don’t be fooled by his attention
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In relationships, we all want to always be cared for and loved. Indirectly, this validates his feelings for you. At first, it was visible sweet and romantic, as if the two of you were meant to be together.
But gradually, his actions on you started to get more intense. He always gives you expensive things, often contacts you and even demands to be contacted by you all the time. Be careful, he could be doing it love bombing, namely deliberately giving excessive love and attention with the implicit aim of manipulating the relationship. So that you are more alert, pay attention to five signs love bombing under.
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1. Often gives you luxurious gifts for no reason
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It’s not wrong to give gifts to loved ones. But people who really aim for love bombing always overreacting to everything. From giving expensive gifts to things you don’t actually need. In fact, there isn’t any event something special worth celebrating.
Especially when he’s carrying it around effortfor the sake of giving you the gift, or the price of the gift itself with the aim of getting you to accept it. This could be their manipulative way of making you always feel “indebted”. Be carefulfellows. What looks sincere from the outside is not necessarily truly sincere.
2. He often spams chats to the point where he becomes uncomfortable
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At first it seemed romantic, he was always there and fast response when you send a message. However, as time went on, the message became increasingly confusing. He demands that you be there for him 24/7, just as he is there for you 24/7. In fact, you also have other activities. But, he didn’t care.
When his messages start to make you feel overwhelmingit could be this red flag. You can’t enjoy time with other people because you feel like you have to always be there for them.
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3. His attitude keeps changing towards you
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One day he can be the most romantic and caring person for you, always supporting you to move forward, but the next day he can criticize you with harsh words. People who intend love bombing can detect low self-confidence.
He deliberately uses this for his personal gain, namely to make you submit under his control. And of course, he still does this intensely, which makes you not only feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable, but also worried and scared.
4. Constantly asking for too much of your time and attention
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One person love bomber deliberately demanding that you give him too much time. He doesn’t care about your busy schedule, your hobbies, or the people around you, the most important thing is that you still spend time with him.
He doesn’t even hesitate to get angry when you make an appointment with your friends or family. This already shows that your relationship has entered an unhealthy realm.
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2023-09-16 13:26:00
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