When going to KTV, you can try to observe other people’s singing habits, or you will get unexpected fun. (Image source: Pixabay)
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Years of experience in corporate consulting has made me discover a surprising phenomenon. After a round of heavy work, tired employees always choose to be together with their colleagues.KTVSing to release stress.As a frequently invited consultant, mysinging voiceMay be tone deaf, but it gives me the ability to observe how each individual singsWorkOpportunities for Attitude Associations.consultationpsychologyShi Lin Cuifen discussed this connection in more depth in the book “Insighting People’s Hearts from Habits”.Therefore, when you go to KTV next time, in addition to enjoyingSingfun, try to observe other people’ssinging habitswhich may bring you unexpected gains.
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People who go to KTV to socialize
Many politicians come to KTV not because they love to sing, but as part of a social opportunity. They make friends with songs, use the title songs they master, and actively integrate into different ethnic groups and classes. Take a friend of mine who is in politics as an example. He not only has a beautiful voice, but also can sing songs in various languages, regardless of Mandarin, Taiwanese, English, Japanese, and even Cantonese songs, he can easily sing. His talent was fully revealed in a challenge where we verified his singing skills.It is conceivable that a person who has put in so much hard work just for the sake of entertainment will never give up until he achieves his goal.Workmad. In order to realize their ideals and ambitions, they not only go through fire and water themselves, but also know how to use the power of others to help them achieve their ideals. They can be said to be natural leaders.
people who never practice singing
there is a kind of personKTVSinging is with the mentality of singing casually, he will sing when others want him to sing, but he never practice singing, even if he stutters and the rhythm is chaotic, he doesn’t care. The funny thing is that people who never practice singing are not very self-demanding in almost everything. When singing, he has the mentality of singing as long as he can, and he cares whether he sings well; With a good attitude, it doesn’t matter whether he is doing well or not. People who don’t ask for anything will naturally not be too serious when making friends. Unless others take the initiative to contact them, they will be like a kite with a broken string, flying lightly without knowing where they are going .
image-conscious person
Some people keep a low profile in their daily lives, but when given the opportunity to express themselves, they can’t help revealing their inner sullen and liberated side. I have a friend who is exactly this kind of sullen type. He usually uses his own inadequacy as a reason to refuse the opportunity to perform first, but after pushing and pushing, he finally persuaded him to pick up the microphone. This is terrible, he You can sing Jay Chou’s songs from the first to the last, and keep emphasizing: “I have a bad throat today and I can’t sing well.” The implication is that if he is not in poor health, his performance will be even better . Whether in KTVSing, or when accepting work tasks. Once accepted, however, he goes all out to make the most of his talents, while still humbly emphasizing his own shortcomings. Let me ask: People with 18 kinds of martial arts are so humble, how should other people deal with themselves, invisibly causing colleagues to fall into “performance anxiety” without knowing it.
a person who only sings a certain type of song
I know a friend who only sings a certain type of song every time he goes to KTV, and sings with all his attention, as if no one else is there. His concentration is so touching that he wants to give him a best singing award immediately. . Usually, people who only sing songs they like tend to do things they are interested in at work. Although they can control 100% of the singing, they can sing whoever’s song they like; however, they are not so independent when they are working, and no matter how persistent they are, they still have to compromise with reality.
Those who specialize in difficult singing
Even when singing in casual KTV, some people still pursue a high level of performance. Such people will insist on choosing difficult or high-quality songs. I have a friend who not only picks out difficult singing, but also requires perfection in the place where he sings. He believes that in order to devote himself to singing, the environment must cooperate, so he hates singing in KTV where people are eating, drinking and chatting. People who specialize in difficult singing often like to take on more difficult tasks when doing things. They hate doing routine tasks that have no room for performance. Just like when singing, they like to emphasize their outstanding taste, so they also like to highlight their abilities when working, hoping to get thunderous praise every time they complete a job, otherwise, they will feel that their work lacks a sense of accomplishment , will become weaker and weaker.
the person who sings in the gap
A large number of people go to KTV to sing, some will hold the microphone tightly, one song after another, and will not put down the microphone until they sing until their throat is sore and hoarse; Sing a song you like when others are not singing, and have fun. People who usually choose to sing when others are not singing are mostly not good at expressing themselves. They listen in silently when singing, and work silently when working. This type of person is used to not fighting or grabbing, but because his personality is too passive, if everyone is in high spirits and there is no room for him to perform, then he will have to sit from the beginning to the end.
The person who thinks he sings the best
I was once invited to be a judge in a KTV competition. It was just for fun, but when I arrived at the scene, I found that every contestant was full of confidence and high expectations.One of the handsome guys who claimed to be similar to a certain star thought that his performance would be outstanding, but in fact hissinging voiceJust a little bit better than me. After the competition, this handsome guy’s colleague told me that no matter what he does, he thinks that “others are not as good as him” and that he is the best. , who likes to guide others to do this and that, everyone wants to know how to get along with such a “narcissistic” person so as not to be robbed of the limelight by him.
A person who volunteers to order songs for others
Almost every time I go to KTV, I will meet a person who volunteers to order songs for others. They will take the time to ask everyone: “What song do you want to sing?” and then automatically input it into the computer. . Generally speaking, this kind of song-ordering service-oriented person is likely to be comprehensive in doing things, hoping to take care of everyone within the scope of their duties. Sometimes, they will even sacrifice their own interests for the sake of the overall situation and do not want to spoil the atmosphere of the team.
Some people may think that going to KTV to sing is just for entertainment, so why take it so seriously, but if you can’t even get excited about having fun, then you don’t know what to do to be full of energy.
(This article is an excerpt from the book “Insight into People’s Hearts from Habits: Learn to Know People and Solve All Troubles in Interpersonal Relationships”)
Source: Times Publishing
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