1. He used to say that life is not cool
Your man used to like his job. He also felt happy at home. But now he’s restless or apathetic, a midlife crisis could be right in front of him. There are usually two reasons for this: Some men reach a midlife crisis and realize that many of their dreams are still (and perhaps will remain) unfulfilled. Other men react this way to a midlife crisis because they’ve reached the pinnacle of their career and don’t know if anything more is possible.
Whatever the reasons, a man hit by a midlife crisis wants to change his routine. Classically, this means anything from quitting your job to doing crazy things with your friends. Other times, a man may feel depressed for a longer period of time, and this may also refer to the relationship. So what can you do? Pay attention to your man’s impatience and listen carefully when he tells you about his worries. Encourage him to start small changes – try unusual foods, start a new hobby.
2. He thinks about cheating. Maybe they are already cheating
Has your longtime, devoted husband started looking around slyly? Has he even started going to the bathroom with his phone so you can’t see who is texting or calling? Does your husband’s shirt smell like women’s perfume? Does he have various excuses for coming home late? If you are asking yourself these questions, your husband is probably cheating on you. This is just one of the painful results of a midlife crisis. Experts say that men who go through a midlife crisis become softer and more open to people and feelings. Ironically, some marriages suffer because it makes it easy for the man to get involved in cheating affairs. If he also cheats on you, remember, it’s not your fault. He makes the choice himself – to cheat or not.
Has he even started taking his phone into the bathroom? Does your husband’s shirt smell like women’s perfume? Does he have various excuses for coming home late?
3. He suddenly makes quick decisions about money and/or career
Pay attention if your husband suddenly loses interest in his career, wants to change careers, or has bought that expensive car he’s always wanted despite having a mortgage. These actions show that your husband is still trying to live life to the fullest. He’s probably thinking, “Maybe I can make up for all the things I missed when I was young.” This is a sure sign that a man is having a midlife crisis. But this symptom is easier to deal with than others.
Experts emphasize that men and women sometimes simply do not understand each other. Often husbands fear that they will upset their wives if they propose new ideas. In other words, what seems like a quick decision to the wife, is a long-thought-out process for the husband. This is the time when communication between the couple and patience is needed.
4. He is no longer interested in spending time with you
For couples who experience a non-existent sex life before reaching middle age, having less sex pleasure after age 50 does not mean that the couple is experiencing a crisis. But if he seems to have self-esteem issues or is generally unhappy, sex can become an additional burden. On the other hand, if he has a lover, he can become extra cute without you noticing. Keep your eyes open for any direction of change. Ask your husband about everything that is on your mind. Experts agree that good communication is important in any marriage, and is especially helpful when one partner is going through a midlife crisis.
You can tell your husband that you don’t agree with his behavior, but you can’t force him to stop doing something he doesn’t want to stop doing.
5. He has suddenly started drinking more alcohol
This is a problem that your man has to deal with on his own. You can tell your husband that you don’t agree with his behavior, but you can’t force him to stop doing what he doesn’t want to stop doing. Counseling him or both of them together can help to deal with this problem, but the husband needs to find the motivation within himself.
6. He shows the classic signs of depression – sleeps more, loses his appetite, often feels weak
This behavior is usually the result of some family tragedy, such as the death of a parent, or another type of shock, such as being laid off from a long-term job. Difficult life trials can intensify depression and accentuate a midlife crisis. Although the American Psychological Association reports that depression affects more than 6 million men each year, many men choose to ignore the signs because they believe it is unmanly to admit that they are feeling down. If you see these symptoms in your man, you can suggest him to see a psychologist who can help him.
7. He is overly nostalgic and independently immerses himself in memories of his youth and first love
In middle age, some men begin to wonder what if, and they begin to reflect on their past decisions. The downside of nostalgia is that everyone looks at past events through rose-colored glasses. Of course, you know your husband has no idea what would have happened if your husband had married his high school sweetheart (unless you were his high school sweetheart), but now he can only dream of what it would have been like. These fantasies make him feel good, so don’t worry. This fantasy world is only dangerous if he starts to realize his dreams.
2023-08-05 13:07:00
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