Jeeva lacks courage
At times Jiva will lack courage in taking decisions. But I don’t have that problem. When I have to make a decision, I will make a decision – says Aparna. There have been a lot of fights and stuff between us too. Sometimes we tell each other about financial decisions. We do it together. Then there are responsibilities.
Accepting mistakes
Things will happen only if we both work. We are both people who started from nothing. At the time of marriage, they had responsibilities. It is still the same. Even when we look after everything, we sometimes have fights. Then ask each other. Both have no problem admitting when one makes a mistake. If I have done something wrong, I will accept it when Aparna says it.
Less thinking about the future
There is no ego between us to say sorry. All the quarrels between us are small. It is usually dissolved before going to bed. We are not saying this for an interview. People tend to think that we are people who are at our peak. And that’s how we are to some extent. We don’t think much about our future. Both of us have two ways of planning.
Be transparent in life
We don’t have the style of saving the money we get today and living miserably.
We are the ones who live with minimum balance for tomorrow. There are many things that we missed when we were young. Whether it is freedom, a commodity or whatever – says Jiva. The biggest thing in life is to be transparent with each other.
Trust is a big factor
Communication is the biggest factor. Now, whether I like it or not, I will say it openly. And so it is in all things, and not in one thing. Trust is the most important thing in life. About 50 percent of what happens in a divorce is about trust. Without this, the break will happen in seconds- Jeeva and Aparna tell Dhanya Varma
