Autism is a complex and often misunderstood condition that affects many people around the world. While there is growing awareness and understanding of the condition, there are still many misconceptions that are pervasive in society. One of the most persistent myths is that there is such a thing as being “a little bit autistic” or having a “touch of autism”. However, the reality is that autism is a spectrum disorder, and you are either on the spectrum or you are not. In this article, we will explore why there is no such thing as being “a little bit autistic” and why this is an important distinction to make.
Aislíng Owens Nash is a mother of two boys, James (15) and Ethan (8), both of whom are on the autism spectrum but exhibit different traits. James was initially diagnosed with ADHD with DAMP, dyslexia, dyspraxia, dysgraphia, SPD, and other issues. Meanwhile, Ethan was diagnosed with Autistic Spectrum Disorder with a PDA profile. Owens Nash says it was difficult to get a diagnosis for James because the systems that deal with such conditions work independently of each other.
Despite exhibiting different traits, both boys have their own personalities and interests. For example, James loves Lego, music, and singing, while Ethan is fiercely independent and gets charmed by meeting new people. Owens Nash has learned specific strategies to communicate with both boys effectively. She notes that people with autism do not present the same way, and there are no two people in this world with ASD who will present the same.
Owens Nash acknowledges that learning that one’s child has autism can be overwhelming for parents. While the diagnosis does not change who they are, Owens Nash recommends that parents give themselves time to digest the information and seek support from other parents who have been in their shoes. She suggests that families make a plan that works for everyone and include simple lifestyle changes over time, such as changing what they eat, removing chemicals from their homes, and changing their communication strategies.
In her quest to search for the best interventions for her sons, Owens Nash started her own Facebook group called The Love Life Community, which offers free advice, support, and strategies for individuals with autism and their families. She also leads the networking community MIB International, which offers child-friendly networking events to women in business. Owens Nash believes that Autism Awareness month is an opportunity to educate the public about the various facets of autism and to show how varied the spectrum is.
Owens Nash believes that all schools should have year-round education built-in around diversity and inclusion, not just for autism but for all the differences people face in life. As for Autism Awareness Month, Owens Nash acknowledges that it brings more visibility to ongoing efforts throughout the year. She hopes that educating people about autism will help them be more aware and understanding of differences in life.
In conclusion, it is crucial to recognize that there is no middle ground when it comes to autism. People are either on the autism spectrum or not, and there is no such thing as a “little bit autistic.” It is essential to understand and accept that autism is not a choice, but a neurodevelopmental disorder that can affect individuals in varying degrees. By acknowledging and accommodating the needs of people on the autism spectrum, we can create a more inclusive and understanding society. Let us continue to educate ourselves and others on autism, break down stigmas, and support those who have been diagnosed with autism. Every person deserves to be seen, heard, and accepted for who they are.
