I remember in the past, I was also a girl full of enthusiasm, building a company with my husband. When the company went into orbit, I wanted to get pregnant, but because of my poor health, I rest assured that I left all the work to my husband to take care of, while I stayed at home to take care of the pregnancy. Later, I also retired to the rear to take care of my family, becoming a full-time mother.
In the eyes of many people, I am a good woman when I have a good husband who loves his wife and children with all his heart and two lovely and well-educated children. I myself feel the same, I always try to build this house, considering my husband and children as the greatest “achievement” of my life.
But, the happy house in everyone’s eyes only lasted 10 years because my husband had an affair.
In order to quickly come to “tieu tam” on the main road, my husband quickly transferred my name to the house with 1 billion in cash, sending an additional 20 million each month to support my 2 children’s education. Knowing that my husband’s heart was no longer here, I had to sign the divorce papers.
Just then, 5 years have passed, he has never come to see me and the children, every month only sends money via bank card. But the earth is round, yesterday I accidentally met her ex-husband’s “small tam” in the mall, rather, the ex-husband’s new wife.
She looked pale, lacked color, looked so different from the old days that surprised me, not understanding what she had been through in the past years, but now she looks so dilapidated. But the one who once startled her husband, she turns out I also recognize. Seeing her, I greeted her with a smile and said sarcastically:
– Isn’t this my ex-husband’s new wife? I haven’t seen her in 5 years, she looks so different, I almost didn’t recognize her. In the past, you taught me smart women to love themselves, be a little selfish, but now, why are you in this situation, looking like me in the past?
She was so angry that she gritted her teeth, but quietly left. I didn’t chase after her to ridicule her anymore, but the old memories kept coming back to me.
Remember years ago, when my husband was not at home, she proudly carried her pregnant belly to her house to ask me to give up her husband.
By then, I knew my husband was having an affair.
– Your mother and daughter have enjoyed this happiness for 10 years, now give it to me and my daughter. Don’t blame me or Thanh (my ex-husband) but blame yourself first. His clothes were messy, his hair was messy, his body smelled of grease, no wonder he was bored.
Well, it’s also a woman’s fate, I sincerely advise you. As a woman, you have to learn to be a little selfish, to love yourself a little more. She did not dare to eat, she did not dare to wear, all day she sacrificed for her husband and children, then he would be grateful to her, finally falling into my arms. So if you go one step further in the future, remember the lesson I taught you.
I will never forget her every word in this life. After thinking about it, I also realized that she was right. I sacrificed everything for my husband and children, never forced my husband to do housework, did not know how to ask for myself and listened carefully to my husband.
Gradually I lost myself and received suffering. So I hope you guys don’t be foolish like me, don’t wait until you lose your family to realize this lesson.