To have a healthy discussion, calm and clear thinking is needed and the awareness that this is all for the sake of getting the best solution out of all that has existed so far, and five ways to have a healthy discussion when talking to other people.
1. Focus on the topic
The topic must be the main thing before entering into a serious conversation, the topic will direct everything we want to discuss not to deviate and stick to its grip so that it can easily draw the red thread.
The common thread of all this chat will be a problem solving to be able to determine all the confusion that has occurred before the discussion started properly and correctly.
2. Focus on results
discussion illustration (pexels.com/tirachardkumtanom)Focusing on results will draw all the desired conclusions, don’t let selfishness then let everything look in vain, processing results is the best step when trying to get all the answers we want all along.
Focus on results, will give us a sense to keep trying especially when the discussion goes wrong, and all that has happened gives us one proof that the discussion is not just an ordinary conversation but a way that puts one intention for the common good.
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3. Choose people who understand the solution
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Colleagues who understand the problem will make it easier for the discussion to run perfectly, the existence of experts in their field will be an absolute answer when all voices become one and the same sound.
Agreeing with colleagues and then starting to determine the best outcome, is a way of having a healthy discussion and not getting off track, it’s interesting to listen to everything that happens so that there are no useless misunderstandings.
4. Give each other knowledge
discussion illustration(pexels.com/christinamorillo)In discussions, the transfer of knowledge becomes very meaningful, it’s like you have added a positive thought regarding the meaning of the discussion itself, by giving each other new knowledge and not being afraid to lose what we receive from others.
Giving each other new knowledge will add to everything you already know, don’t be afraid to share information and everything you know, believe in continuing to share everything we have received from the results of sharing thoughts with others.
5. Don’t interrupt the conversation
discussion illustration(pexels.com/christinamorillo)Interrupting the conversation will have a negative impact on the desired result, even though by speaking honestly, you have properly set a noble example for others, how waiting for others to speak is a civility that must be upheld.
Not interrupting other people’s conversations will give healthy results to a discussion issue, getting the right answer will be easier to do if everything we talk about starts with manners and mutual respect for one another.
In a healthy discussion, respecting the interlocutor is an absolute thing. Can’t wait for all the moments to come right without having to cut off at the beginning of the words which will create a new conflict. In discussions with other people, the easiest step is not to try to be smarter and silent. So that there is no argument war that only wastes all the time and resources we have.
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