Lesti Kejora has officially withdrawn the complaint against her husband, Rizky Billar, regarding the domestic violence suffered. Lesti also revealed the deal between her and Billar after the report was denied.
In the agreement, Billar promised not to repeat his actions again. Lesti also said that Billar had apologized to his family.
“He strongly promised not to repeat it, it was stated in the agreement. He begged his parents to apologize, my parents forgive him,” Lesti told South Jakarta Metro Police on Friday (10/14/2022).
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In response, clinical psychologist Anastasia Sari Dewi said special treatment was needed for perpetrators of domestic violence. This is because acts of violence are not just wrong emotions or expressions of anger, but their thinking also needs to be straightened.
According to Anastasia, perpetrators generally think that what they do is always right. Also, it could be that what she did was a way to wrap her insecurities about her in her fears.
“On average, she thinks she always feels good or is it her way of enveloping her insecurities, her fears, such as the fear of losing a partner, the fear of being humiliated, the fear of not being appreciated and so on,” she explained. Anastasia a detik.comFriday (14/10/2022).
“By the way, he gets so angry that the other side is afraid of him. Don’t you dare hurt him or you dare do something else,” he continued.
Anastasia revealed that simply promising not to do it again or just reporting it to the police is still not effective. Because inside the author there is still a commotion, and one day it could explode again.
Therefore, the offender must be trained to control his emotional outbursts and overcome his wrong thinking. According to him, if there is a chance, the perpetrators could commit violence again.
“Because if you give up the police report, but if he sees that there is an opportunity for the victim to become his outlet again, it will happen again (violence),” Anastasia said.
“Because it originates from the inside, from the first emotional or emotional response. Do not even think about the long consequences, it is clear that you will regret it later. So, we train the emotions so that they do not cause violence, so here there will be no further consequences “, has explained.
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