Virtual Sex, Masturbation Together Makes Relationships More Intimate

Jakarta, CNN Indonesia —

Long distance relationship (LDR) may be a barrier to activity sex with a partner. But, with the help of technology, sex can be done even though they are far apart.

Virtual sex has become a hot topic of conversation again since the Covid-19 pandemic. The pandemic has forced people to self-isolate. For those of you who do not live with a partner, of course this can be a problem.

Can not meet with a partner, sex was disturbed. Especially if you are not familiar with the virtual sex method, you might not have sex for a long time.

In fact, sex has many benefits. Citing Healthline, sexual activities such as penetration, masturbation, it has a good impact on the body. Sex can boost the immune system, improve sleep quality, relieve headaches, and relieve post-menstrual pain.

Virtual mutual masturbation also has many benefits. Virtual masturbation is no less useful than having sex in person.

“Joint masturbation has a number of potential benefits, whether it’s done in the same physical space or via video,” said researcher at the Kinsey Institute and author of the book. Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire, Justin Lehmiller, quoted Mashable.

Virtual masturbation with your partner can increase intimacy with your partner. By masturbating together, partners become aware of the sensitive parts that can be touched and uncomfortable if ‘played’ during sex.

Mutual masturbation can show your partner what they like, which part is more comfortable to touch, to the sensitive parts and brings it to the ‘peak’.

“In other words, it can be a kind of show and form of sexual communication that helps sex,” says Lehmiller.

So, what should be prepared?

Having sex virtually can be uncomfortable for those of you who are not used to it. Apart from not being used to it, you may also be worried about an unsafe internet or computer network so that your sexual activity is spread out in cyberspace.

For that, you may need to re-check your internet network and computer so that they are not bugged. Using your own internet network is recommended.

You also need your partner’s consent to have sex virtually. The approval, safety and comfort of you and your partner are top priorities when it comes to virtual sex.

Sex expert Kenneth Play suggests starting virtual sex with a chat over the phone or text message. Then, please continue with the video call.

“If your partner doesn’t like the idea, that’s okay. Don’t force them to do it. Instead, look for alternatives to explore intimacy with your partner,” says Play.

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