He wanted to be nice and congratulated a man on his birthday, as well as others. But a jealous lady jumped on him and created a scandal.
DI woke up at 7:30 AM and started to check my social networks, suddenly Facebook warns me, today is the birthday of so-and-so and 7 other people. And I launch myself into the task of congratulating my friends … What almost all of us do out of courtesy, out of kindness and many times it is because the person honored today has also congratulated you on your birthday.
So I write: Happy birthday friend! God bless your whole life! And like lightning I see a leaked message from a person, so-and-so, wants to communicate with you …
I add him to messenger … oh my God! I almost did not raise his comment to my wall, why did you congratulate my husband? Heee ?, and I answer: It is a birthday, it is normal for us to congratulate our friends who are having their birthday.
He asked me where I’m from. There I reply, “Excuse me ma’am, but the wife is you, I don’t have to know anything about him.” The lady continues saying to me: “Nooo, you’re going to look for him for nothing because he’s not going to listen to you, understand!”
In other words, she treated me like I don’t know what, she ignored me. My sin was to compliment your husband and want to be nice.
Conclusion: I never congratulate anyone anymore.
I think it happens a lot, or one of two, they are very jealous and insecure people or in reality the couple is very screwed up. Sometimes they are just friends on a face-to-face basis, you can’t tell whether or not he has a wife or concubine or girlfriend.
Actually, the issue of jealousy comes because one of the two went through a stormy relationship in the past, or has been the victim of a very big betrayal where the man subjected her to his whims and she agreed out of fear of losing him or vice versa. The man heals his wounds more slowly since in this process of the
Deception was taking an inordinate rage, when the couple sees that pride stepped on, they take another position.
He follows her, orders her to follow, demands things from her all the time, they live trapped in the journey of doubt, from which they do not return without having checked.
And the wife, oh my God! When women ask: Do you know her? It is because we already know where she lives, where she came from, how she got there, what she said to her, in short, even what she ate yesterday.
But all that does not give the right for a stranger to write you to claim anything for a greeting on Facebook, she wrote and began to say things, misplaced for me.
I THINK THAT IT HAPPENS A LOT, OR ONE OF TWO, THEY ARE VERY JEALOUS AND UNSAFE PEOPLE OR IN REALITY THE COUPLE IS VERY FUCKED
CONGRATULATIONS, 25 YEARS OLD,
VALLEMÍ
THE ANSWER: SELECT THE BEST FRIENDS
Controlling emotions is necessary
EIt is very difficult not to feel jealous, we all feel it to a lesser or greater degree when we are afraid of losing something valuable to us, but we can learn to handle it and not be taken over. Excessive jealousy is an extremely destructive emotion, it ends the relationship with a partner, decreases the self-esteem of those who feel it, leaving deep wounds in their personality. If you cannot control your emotions, you have to ask for help, look for an alternative for emotional well-being.
Thank you very much for writing to us, with social networks situations were added, links that are often created or broken according to a wrong interpretation of things. It does not give anyone the right to abuse, but you cannot avoid it, instead do not let it affect you or that for a situation like this you deprive your true friends of a greeting for their birthday. Knowing how to choose better or select your contacts more carefully, avoid requests for dubious or false profiles for your mental health.
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