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Must admit foreplay be an equally important part of sex besides intercourse (penetration). Like dining, foreplay acts as a appetizer or the opening menu.
The appetizing appetizer menu will certainly lead to a fun and passionate ‘dining’ experience.
“In a world where the craziest sexual fantasies are no longer condemned and a creative and fulfilling sex life has become something to strive for, why limit seduction and desire to just one room? Why be limited?” said sexologist Nikki Goldstein, as quoted GQ.
Well, you don’t limit your foreplay to your room. Building the mood for sex can even start when you wake up.
1. Be the best partner
The concept of foreplay generally focuses on the minutes before penetration, including touching, whispering, or other stimulation. I think this is an old concept that needs to be dismantled. Tom Murray, sex and family therapist, says foreplay also includes everyday activities where you show your partner as a person, a partner.
“You appear in terms of making a couple’s life easier such as washing clothes, taking the kids to the park, making sure bills are paid on time and of course making sure you don’t do things that make life more difficult, like breaking promises or being unreliable. Kindness and attention are sexy, “Murray said, as quoted Huffington Post.
2. ‘Naughty’ text
You probably wouldn’t imagine how much words have the power to create imagination. Goldstein said this concoction of words should be clear, descriptive and suggestive. Men are touted as visual creatures, but women are more of a taste.
“A message that hints at your sexual desire can make your partner lust for you. It works both ways. Telling him what makes you excited can also drive you wild,” he added.
3. Photos speak more than words
Words are powerful, but a photo can also express your passion and even a photo speaks louder than words. Show him what he will get tonight.
Maybe nude photos will feel too much for a beginner. Why not put on your favorite lingerie and snap in some parts that if he ‘burns his beard’ he wants to go home soon?
Even if you and your partner are both on WFH, it’s not illegal to send naughty texts or photos. In fact, this outdoor game can be even more exciting.
Check out the foreplay steps that evoke other sex drive on the following page.
7 Steps Foreplay Out of Bed to Make Sex More Passionate
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