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Friday, 27 Oct 2023 22:10 IWST
Illustration. There are several reasons why women suddenly feel reluctant to have sex that you need to know. (Istockphoto/ Gmast3r)
Jakarta, CNN Indonesia —
Wife suddenly becomes lazy when invited make love? Don’t sulk yet. It could be that the wife is not feeling well mood to make love.
No need to worry, no mood to make love doesn’t mean you’re no longer attractive. There are several reasons why women suddenly feel reluctant to have sex that you need to know.
Sexual passion is not something that will last. Sexual desire can change in each person due to various factors.
Thus, being lazy about having sex is actually a normal thing and can happen to anyone.
Reasons why women are lazy about making love
Fluctuations in sexual desire are very common. Having a low libido at one point doesn’t mean someone is lazy about making love all their life.
Here are some reasons why women are lazy about making love, as reported SELF.
1. Stress
Stress puts the whole body in fight or flight mode. This condition makes it difficult for the body to do several things, including sexual desire.
A number of studies have found that surges in stress-related hormones, such as cortisol, contribute to a decrease in libido.
2. Menstruation
Illustration. Menstruation is one of the reasons why women are reluctant to have sex. (Dieter Robbins/Pixabay)
During the menstrual period, a woman’s body will experience hormonal changes. As a result, it is natural that sexual desire decreases.
Apart from that, discomfort during menstruation also makes many women reluctant to have sex.
3. Consuming certain medications
Certain medications are known to cause a decrease in libido. For example, SSRI antidepressant drugs.
In addition to inhibiting sexual desire, these medications are also known to decrease vaginal lubrication and contribute to erectile dysfunction in some men.
Apart from antidepressant drugs, there are also drugs used to treat cancer and hypertension, which can reduce sexual desire.
4. Lack of sleep
The quality of sleep will greatly influence the condition of the body, including regarding sexual desire. A study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that women who got more sleep had higher sexual desire the next day.
It is suspected that this causes a feeling of relaxation that should be produced by quality sleep. Without this feeling of relaxation, the body can feel tired and lead to a reluctance to make love.
5. Not being confident with your own body
Negative feelings about your body and appearance can have a big impact on your mood aka mood to have sex.
For example, a woman who feels her body is too fat may be lazy when asked to make love by her partner.
6. Have a chronic disease
Illustration. Diseases of intimate organs, one of the reasons why women are reluctant to have sex. (iStockphoto/Teerasak1988)
Some diseases can have a direct impact on sexual desire. One of the reasons is stress which is usually triggered by illness.
Primarily, this applies to women who have health problems in the area of intimate organs. This can easily contribute to a decrease in sexual desire.
Call it endometriosis, pelvic floor problems, vaginitis, or recurrent bacterial infections of the vagina. All of these diseases make the desire to have sex even lower.
7. Smoking too much
If your wife is a smoker, then this could be one of the causes. Smoking too often is one of the reasons why women are reluctant to have sex.
Nicotine itself is known to reduce blood flow throughout the body. A number of studies have found that nicotine dependence in women is associated with low libido.
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2023-10-27 15:10:22
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