7 Habits of Attractive Women: Check Yourself

If you were expecting advice about the gym, fashionable outfit and makeup courses, we hasten to disappoint you. Attractiveness is more than a flawless appearance.

The most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence. It’s not easy for everyone: ideal images from advertising and social networks make you sad and make you feel ashamed of the slightest imperfections. The truth is that physically perfect people simply do not exist, and with the right clothes, perfect makeup and lighting, any girl can look like a superstar. It is important to remember that your attitude towards yourself largely determines how others perceive you. If you don’t love yourself, why should others?

You can’t depict erudition and horizons in Photoshop. Having knowledge makes women attractive regardless of appearance. The formal presence of diplomas cannot always be a measure of a living mind. What is more important is not an academic degree, but a keen interest in the world and people. Show attention to others, and they will certainly reciprocate your feelings. Does science make you sad? Learn a new recipe, read a novel, watch a documentary – may you always have something interesting to talk about.

Do you want to be admired? Get respect first. Money should not be an end in itself, but its absence puts you in a dependent position. And this, alas, is not a metaphor: by relying on a man’s money, some women lose not only financial independence, but also the ability to manage their lives. The prospect of being on the street in the truest sense of the word can deprive you of your will. The status of a kept woman will not make a woman more attractive, much less bring her respect – neither from society nor from men.

To say that women are not supposed to be sad would be downright sexist. But we’re talking about something completely different. Being sad is as normal as smiling, but if we are talking about personal attractiveness, people would rather follow someone who is positive and has faith in a bright future than someone who is depressed and always sad. Let others be surprised by your cheerfulness – this way you will always be the center of attention, because this is what most people lack and what they look for in others. And the brain is designed in such a way that we instinctively respond to a smile with a smile – try it, and notice how the people around you change.

Don’t get me wrong: no one is shaming anyone for bold images and bold statements. But everything is good in moderation. Healthy modesty has nothing to do with submissiveness, uncertainty and shyness. Do you want to increase your attractiveness? Develop emotional intelligence: show respect, listen and get rid of prejudices – no one likes upstarts and people obsessed with their imaginary superiority. Modesty in this case is about adequate self-esteem and the ability to balance between confidence and toxic self-confidence. Do you feel the difference?

Constantly comparing yourself to others can truly poison your life. There will always be someone to whom you can grow and grow. So, are any of your achievements worthless and insignificant? Obviously, this is not so, and, admittedly, there is little attractiveness in self-flagellation. A truly attractive woman knows firsthand what healthy self-love is. The world works like this: you are especially appreciated when you begin to live for yourself, and do not get in the way with the desire to be useful to someone.

Note that diet affects not only appearance. Your eating habits will affect your health and energy levels, as well as your behavior. Sometimes you can’t do without counting calories, but over time you will learn to eat intuitively so as not to cause problems and excess weight. If you’re on a diet, make sure you don’t become a fanatic who obsesses over your diet and doesn’t notice anything or anyone around you.