A stable intimate relationship contributes greatly to the happiness of the spouses and the success of the marriage, so attention must be paid to the factors that lead to a good intimate relationship, and also to avoid mistakes that spoil the intimate relationship.
Here is a list of wrong habits that spoil intimacy:
1- Give in to a repetitive routine
The bedroom has privacy, and this privacy should not be violated by allowing children to play or sleep in it, or allow functional work inside it, or even eat food inside the bedroom, as all of these practices lead to a chaotic bedroom, which affects the quality of intimacy.
Preserve the privacy of your bedroom by not allowing children to enter it, and not allowing them to work in it or with smart devices, while making sure to clean and arrange the room, perfume it and furnish it with luxurious furnishings, in order to encourage the couple to have an intimate relationship.
3- Stop intimacy for long periods
Intimacy must be at a good rate in order for the spouses to feel satisfied, which is neglected by some couples under the pretext of lack of time and the large number of responsibilities and pressures, and therefore the spouses stop practicing intimacy for long periods, which affects the nature of the marital relationship, and reduces harmony and understanding between the spouses.
4- Ashamed to talk about intimacy
To have a successful and satisfying intimate relationship, the couple must be open about their needs and desires, and talk openly and frankly about intimacy. As for the shyness of talking about the intimate relationship between the spouses, it causes misunderstanding, lack of harmony, and a lack of satisfaction with the relationship.
5- Shyness of the initiative
This wrong habit often occurs by wives, as the wife is ashamed to initiate the request for intimacy from her husband, while the wife’s initiative is normal, and it can happen through gentle hints and not directly.
