According to renowned Czech psychiatrist and relationship expert Miroslav Plzák, we tend to say when things don’t work out in our collaborations that our collaboration was a mistake. Non-existent place. This is not a mistake, this is our defeat in the game called marriage. What are the basic types of potentially problematic marriages in which we most often become rivals, or even enemies?
According to an extensive sociological dictionary, a couple relationship is defined as a relationship that, unlike friendship, is oriented not on the personality of the partners, but on a common goal. Contemporary intimate relationships are characterized by an increase in new forms of collaboration, but the satisfaction of basic emotional, emotional and material needs and the need for joint cooperation persist even in postmodern relationships.
There are four basic types of troubled marriages
The causes of their instability can be found in the insufficient satisfaction of our emotional and emotional needs, in the use of bad family patterns and in the confusion of female and male roles in contemporary society. What types of partnerships are in conflict?
- A woman eager for love and an emotionally cold husband
- A man looking for a mother in a woman
- Marriages struggling with addictions
- A paranoid marriage
We will go through all four types one by one. However, it is important to realize that the following characteristics of problem marriages also commonly appear in functional marriages, depending on the intensity and duration of the problems. It also concerns the level of problems manifested.
A woman who is eager for love and an emotionally cold partner
In a marriage where one partner is sensitive, eager for loving expressions and the other is withdrawn, he is always potentially close to misunderstanding, misunderstanding, frustration and can be doomed in the long run. Usually the most sensitive partner, and therefore the most affected, is the woman, but obviously there can also be the opposite model, when the emotionally cold partner is not able to sufficiently satisfy the emotional and emotional needs of the husband.
According to astrology, this type of problematic partnership appears most often in couples born under the sign Cancer and Aquarius, Scorpio and Aquarius, Pisces and Aquarius. Aquarius man is for women born under the signs of water a tangled nut. This pattern can be quite problematic even in the opposite guard, when it appears in a relationship a woman born under the sign of Aquarius and his partners will be Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces men.
Combination Cancer and Aquarius
It will be hard here, too hard. Emotional coldness of Aquarius a hypersensitivity of cancer they don’t go well together. Cancer seeks emotional security, arms full of flowers and love, reassurance of the partner’s eternal affection – and Aquarius is usually not capable of this. Cancer’s emotional dissatisfaction in the relationship with Aquarius then manifests itself in a stinging criticism, an offensive attitude and an emotional blackmail on the part of the Cancer. Aquarius could improve things a bit with a good relationship with Cancer mother, who would intercede for Aquarius, but that won’t help forever. So, if an Aquarius is in love with a Cancer and wants to be with them, they need to find a more romantic, kind and creative side of their nature. And Cancer should remember that this too is a cardinal sign that knows damn well what he wants. He lets the other have something to admire.
- The main theme of the report: How to reconcile the emotional differences of both parties involved.
- Good advice: Avoid tense situations. To communicate.
Combination Scorpio and Aquarius
An archetypal combination of partners. Scorpio represents here Gorgon woman, Aquarius Iceman. A beautiful and loving woman gets deeply hurt and transforms into a hissing Gorgon monster (the most famous Gorgon is Medusa), everyone gets petrified at the sight of her, transforming into an ice man. Two types of people who have the energy of these two archetypes “below” meet. One who feels and experiences a deep passion and love that turns into hatred when he is hurt and whose symbol is the Scorpio. The second, the Aquarian principle, which, under the pressure of emotions, petrifies, freezes, does not react or withdraw and waits in silence for the storm to calm down.
How to live in harmony? To understand the differences of the very essence of nature. The moment they accept their mutual difference, one of the most beautiful and enduring couple combinations under the sun is born. These two can accompany the nobility of the eagles and the altruism of Prometheus and together they change the course of history.
- The main theme of the report: How to accept and use each other’s differences.
- Good advice: Your half is twice the size of the others. Don’t be so maximal.
Combination Pisces and Aquarius
Pisces is a water sign, Airy aquarium. Water symbolizes feeling, the reason for air. The problem with this partnership is again the difference in the degree of feeling they can receive or give. Pisces have no boundaries, their love is unlimited. Aquarius is a cold type or an ice queen, with their icy breath they can easily turn water into ice or dry it completely. And the coexistence of Pisces and Aquarius quickly turns into an arid desert or a frozen kingdom.
A combination that can also be completed. Aquarius loves Pisces for their magnetically attractive radiance, sense of delicacy, dedication and adaptability. Pisces, on the other hand, admire Aquarius intelligence and originality. They are proud that this eternal rebel has found pleasure in their submissive and naive nature.
- The main theme of the report: How to realize your great ideals together.
- Good advice: Cultivate mutual esteem and respect, these will overcome all mutual inconsistencies.
There is a good guy in the game
In the game, he is a cool guy and a great individualist who born under the sign of Aquarius and to which the emotional intensity is foreign. He doesn’t like letting her into his life. So don’t expect big passions and hand-to-hand combat in an Aquarius marriage. Expect a sincere and free feeling, a pure heart and a clear mind. She will offer you friendship, which she can sometimes mistake for love, but don’t make fun of her. For Aquarius, friendship is the highest value. And he will constantly surprise you with something new, life with him can be a unique experience for you.
- If you want to take it, you have to arouse his curiosity, he is attracted to the mystery and the unknown. At the same time, he admires women who know how to stand up for themselves, are brave and free-spirited.
- If you want to keep it, you never have to put pressure on him and scream hysterically. You will not get anything with great emotions.
Source: author’s article and Plzák, M .: Tactics and strategies in love, Prague 2011.
