Jakarta, CNN Indonesia —
any type sex someone, open and consensual communication alias agreement is the main key. Even though they have become husband and wife, it does not mean that the wife’s body belongs to the husband, and vice versa.
There needs to be discussion so that the experience of sex, especially in the beginning of married life does not cause trauma.
According to reports Medical News Today, things that need to be discussed include sex preferences as well as anxiety related to sex.
Admittedly, this anxiety is also a matter of the pain inflicted on the first night up foreplay should be longer, use of lubricants, also try several sex positions to find the most comfortable.
The following recommendations for basic sex positions that can be tried.
1. Missionaries
For the first sex experience, in general the easiest and most comfortable position is the missionary.
Pradeep Aggarwal, a specialist in aesthetic medicine, missionary will position the woman lying down, while the man remains on top. However, the missionaries did not rule out variations or modifications.
“There are several variations that a woman can do with her legs. Women can grab the man with his legs, spread his legs as wide as possible, pull his legs closer to the man or maybe put his feet on the shoulders of his partner,” Aggarwal said on the page. Lybrate.
Variations in position will provide a sensation of different depths of penetration. You can choose and determine the position that is the least painful.
2. Woman on Top
From the name of the position, you will immediately know where each side places itself. Woman on top (WOT) positions women on top and in control of the game.
The woman determines how deep and how fast the penetration is. When a woman is in control, a woman can determine for herself the most comfortable game for her so that this position can be minimally painful.
Because it takes more power than missionaries, women need to do a little trick. As reported Pop CultureGive yourself a break by leaning forward or one side of your partner’s body and placing your hands on the side of your partner’s head.
When the weight of the body rests on the hands, feet and knees can a little ‘breathe’. Don’t be silent. When leaning forward, it’s time to launch sweet and ‘naughty’ words, or kiss your partner.
Check out other simple sex positions that beginners can try.
Simple sex positions for beginners
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