During a blind date in a restaurant, a 35-year-old Shanghai woman was mercilessly rejected by her husband: Will I marry you to support myself in old age? (Picture/Photo taken from NetEase)
As the saying goes, “When a female is a junior, she has a gold nugget.” When modern people fall in love, most people can accept “sister-brother love.” However, there is a video recently posted on the Chinese Internet. It tells the story of a 35-year-old Shanghai woman who was mercilessly rejected by a 29-year-old man during a blind date in a restaurant. The woman’s mood seemed to have been poured cold water on, and she couldn’t help but complain about this experience, which also caused widespread discussion among netizens.
The woman said that the two were introduced by someone and met on a blind date in a restaurant. She said that the man was born in 1995 and has a good career. He has a scooter and bought a small house with a loan. He is obviously on the rise in life based on his age and conditions. Although it may not necessarily be a perfect marriage for him to marry. If you are rich, you can at least settle in Shanghai.
After meeting, the woman admired the other party’s enthusiasm and generosity. Afterwards, the two had a very pleasant conversation, which made the woman feel that the other party was also satisfied with her, so she took advantage of the good atmosphere and asked tentatively: “I am already 35, do you mind?”
When the woman thought about it, no matter whether the man minded or not, at least she would politely answer “No” on the spot. Unexpectedly, the man suddenly changed his face and put down his chopsticks and didn’t even want to eat: “I definitely mind. At your age, you are almost going to menopause.” , if I marry you, do you want me to provide for you in your old age?”
Afterwards, the man responded with indifference during the dinner, and the woman felt that she had lost face and left in a hurry. The blind date ended in failure.
This video spread on the Internet and caused a lot of discussion. Some netizens thought: “Boys talk so degradingly that they deserve to not find a girlfriend”, “Do you have the guts to go home and ask your mother if she has gone through menopause at the age of 35?”, “On a blind date, we should treat each other sincerely, and lovers should not become friends. In this way Harsh language and bad character.” But some people understand the man’s considerations: “Marriage and having children are not only traditional concepts, but also practical issues. At the age of 35, the chance of pregnancy is already very low, so it is normal to be disliked.” There are also people. The biggest reason for the whole thing was pointed out in one sentence, and I felt that it would be fine once I explained it clearly at the beginning: “What kind of matchmaker? At least the name, gender, age, work, etc. must be mentioned (disdain)!”
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2024-03-15 10:45:51